August 19,
2013
Hello
family and Friends—
Another
beautiful day in New York.
While those of you who have been sweltering in heat, we have been
enjoying temperate weather, some days being literally perfect.
Happy,
happy anniversary Sean and Julianne.
It was wonderful to talk to you and the kids last night. Their children are all in school now,
at three different schools. Wow! Kyle has started seminary in the
morning. Again, wow!
Been
an “as usual” busy week, not quite the adventures of the past. Yesterday Lynn and I left our apartment
earlier than usual so we could go pick up Kathleen Reynolds. She’s from Jamaica, came to the US so
her daughter (who is a member of the church and lives in Michigan) could help
her overcome some health problems. Kathleen joined the church and has been a stalwart
member. She has another daughter
that lives in Brooklyn so she moved here so she could be with family that could
take care of her. Her legs support
her just enough that she can walk with a cane, very slowly! Normally the Soletas take her to church
but they will be in the Philippines for a month. After Lynn dropped Kathleen and me off at church, he went to
the apartment of one of our younger single sisters so he could drive Judith,
her sister and her sister’s huge piece of luggage to church. Judith’s sister then took that luggage
to the nearest subway station after the 3 hour block and got on a train with it
to go to Boston. It’s what you do
here.
It
took a while for members to make it to the meeting because one of the main
streets was blocked off for a Pakistani kind of celebration/parade. That means that the bus system won’t
work and you have to take the train, then walk. We have one new family in the ward, mom, dad, three little
kids who all get on a bike and bike to church, quite a ways actually! The mom’s a marathon runner.
The
ward leaders and missionaries are going ahead with a project to “find” all the
inactive members of the ward, (about 650 people) and either talk to them and
hopefully encourage them to come to church, or find out if they’ve moved out of
the ward. This way, we’ll have a
more accurate count of the membership.
When members were brought into our ward from Park Slope, it included
some really tech savvy men who had some great ideas about organizing the
process.
We
took two Sisters to a house several miles away to collect some things that a previous
Midwood member had left, and the landlord was going to throw the things
away. The sisters will mail the
lady her things. This is why we
have a car—to support the cause with transportation. Then we went to “cold” visit two families for home teaching,
but one family didn’t want to see us (they had company); the other family was
gone. Can’t contact these families
by phone—they won’t answer, won’t return calls, so we just drop in on them. We ended the evening by watching the
John Tanner (my 4-G grandfather) video the church put out and talking to S
& J. Also, thank you Meriden,
for writing up Grandpa Noble’s story about his healing at the hands of Joseph
Smith.
I’m
going back a week now, just to say that we had a chance to Skype with Bob and
Moira and kids a week agounday.
Joseph opened up his birthday presents in front of the camera so we
could join in the fun. We got him
a toy that involved a car going in a circle and shooting out at the end of the
circle. Looked like fun. I’m sure most of you understand that
Moira and Bob are expecting #4; we are excited, she seems to be doing quite
well. It’s wonderful seeing the
little ones get older and more skilled in whatever fashion.
Monday
was spent getting ready for FHE.
Lynn had spent a long time trying to develop one game and things just
weren’t working out. So he went to
an FHE site and found the game “Sardines,” which we REALLY enjoyed playing and
a name matching game. You put a
word on the back of someone and they are supposed to guess what the word
is. The word also relates to
another word on someone else’s back, i.e., I had the word “flower” and the
person that matched me had “vase” on their back. Then after everyone was “found” Lynn asked everyone to
give a name that described Jesus Christ.
We came up with quite a list.
Lynn pointed out that “Savior” was the most important word, and then he
showed the church video that shows Christ during the last 24 hours of his
life. It was a very moving
experience. I made homemade
strawberry shortcake with whipped cream and that was the evening dessert—the
evening was a hit.
Tuesday
was the temple. Ah, so good
to go back. We had full sessions
at 11 and 12:30. Lynn and I
officiated at the 2 pm session. I also did Initiatory and had to get back into the
groove with that. I played “guard
duty” at the door when a young woman did Initiatory for the first time (she was
going on a mission). When that
happens they don’t want regular patrons to interrupt. But, it gave me a chance to have a long talk with her
mother—they were from New Jersey.
Lynn said he was given the chance to be part of doing Initiatory for a
man going through the temple for the first time, and he really enjoyed
that. When we were officiating in
the 2 pm session (which was a small group) we had a chance to see the new
movie. It was beautiful, what we
could see of it not looking at the screen full on. The movie has moved quite a few patrons to tears and that
happened in our session—we came close to running out of Kleenex! After we left, we walked through the
park then took the train back, then went to Gyro King for their yummy
food. I got three meals out of my
dinner.
Wednesday
was miracle day. Lynn talked to
J.D. on Tuesday night, late, and both of us talked with him in the
morning. He was, in fact, on his
way to California to go to school.
We helped him out with a little information; he had an appointment to
get the oil changed, and then leave from there to Fullerton, CA. You see, we knew that J.D. was still
struggling with the decision to follow through and go to Optometry school and we
literally didn’t know for sure that he was going until a day before he
left. Thank you for posting on
Facebook, J. I felt a
feeling that I had after Lynn and I had left Bob in Wisconsin by himself after
helping him get some things for his home, just a kind of kick in the stomach,
feeling of loss, yet for both boys, what was happening was the best possible
thing. Why was I crying when I was
so happy?!!!
Also,
Wednesday Lynn and I went shopping to get food for the Zone Conference being
held at our meeting house. We had
to fix food for 26 people, so I thought what those kids would like to eat that
wouldn’t be too much work to fix?
Pulled pork sandwiches with cole slaw, of course. So, COSTCO and Shop Rite were friends
for the day. For dessert, I made
two chocolate bundt cakes on Wednesday, using a recipe that I had made before.
Lynn
had received a phone call from the mother of the man, Garrett Harris, who had
been in an accident and she wanted Lynn to go back and give him another
blessing. This time, Lynn took two
different Elders to help him.
Garrett had a girlfriend stay at the hospital, but she wanted to go to a
friend’s place to clean up, so she left.
Garrett is still sedated.
Apparently it turns out he was riding his bike erratically, perhaps
using his cell phone, and HE ran into a car and fell to the street injuring his
head. Humm, something to
think about. He wasn’t wearing a
helmet! One of the Elders gave him
another blessing, and then the three left.
While
Lynn was gone, Meriden called and she just wanted to chat and tell me about her
wonderful time in Utah. It was
nice just talking to her.
So,
Thursday—all hands on deck to fix food for Friday; I was on my feet all day. In the late evening two Spanish Ward
missionaries came by and wanted to know if we would like 5 gallons of Country
Time lemonade that they had made up.
Turns out that for many months, missionaries have been passing out
lemonade at a local park to help advertise a movie activitiy on Friday
nights. They have been
unsuccessful getting any non-member parents or children to come to the church
and see the movie. Occasionally a
couple of Midwood II members would come with kids. After making up the lemonade Thursday, suddenly 3 of the
four Elders had a simultaneous
strong feeling that they should NOT go to the park and give away flyers
and lemonade. The Holy Ghost had
spoken! So, they took the lemonade
back to the church and put it in the frig. That’s where we came in. Such an interesting story. We did serve it on Friday.
Z-Day. Friday morning came and we packed up
with the pulled pork, a huge bowl of cole slaw, two cakes, 3 dozen bottles of
water, nearly 2 dozen apples, 4 dozen small bags of chips, and all kinds of
things from our kitchen to make the work go easier. We had to set the tables so that was the first order of
business, the second being to have yogurt and granola out for snacks, then we
served everyone at 12:45. There
were a lot of grateful missionaries, I’ll tell you, and overwhelming good
reviews. We had plenty of food for
firsts, and some for those who wanted seconds. We then cleaned up the place and left about 3:30 in the
afternoon. I was plenty tired.
But,
I needed some time to just get out and walk around and suggested going to
Prospect Park, but Lynn had a better idea. We got on the “B” train, transferred to the “5” train and
ended up at the Staten Island Ferry terminal at Battery Park. We got out to the front of the ferry
(BTW, the ride is totally free), found a man who wanted to answer our
questions. He got all excited when
we told him we were from Provo. He
was just there two weeks ago—talked about IHOP giving free food to
missionaries, then he and his family went to S. Utah to the parks. From start to finish the ride took
about 25 minutes. We went to the
beautiful minor league baseball field right on the shore of the bay with a
great view of lower Manhattan.
There was a 911 Memorial for those who died in the World Trade Center
who lived in Staten Island, and it was beautifully done. Looking at the names with descriptions,
the vast majority were either firemen or high ranking company executives. After getting back to our apartment I
had a craving for homemade buttermilk pancakes, so it took a while (we didn’t
eat till 8:30) but they were worth it.
I
have been reading the book, “Kon Tiki” and would highly recommend it—a very
interesting, engaging read.
Saturday
Lynn went to Prospect Park and had a BBQ with the Elders in the ward. There were some members that showed up,
plus an investigator and our Elders.
The party was supposed to start at noon, so that’s when Lynn showed
up. However, the food didn’t
arrive till 2:30!! So, he stayed,
socialized till late afternoon. I
was disappointed because I wanted him to help me with the mission history, but
it was not to be. I spent the day
going through my file box and labeling and putting papers away. Also re-did all my recipes so they were
in alphabetical order.
And I got a lot of household chores done.
Lynn
and I left to go to church at 5 for a Midwood 2 baptism. It turned out to be for a 10 year old
boy who had a little friend who was a member of the church. Can’t quite understand a 10 year old
befriending a 5 year old female spit-fire, but that’s what happened. Turns out the boy was having trouble in
school, the missionaries helped him with his studies and he got an award for
“best improved performance” from their tutoring. He and his mom then listened to the discussions and he
wanted to be baptized; she did not.
So, we supported the MW2 missionaries by showing up. There was a duet done by two missionaries
who had tremendous singing voices and I found out later that one of them had
received opera training at BYU.
Turns out this was the first baptism I’ve been to since we’ve been on
this mission. Our ward has had two
baptisms in eight months, but they scheduled them at times we could not go. There is supposed to be one this
Sunday.
I
have spent my morning doing this letter, then Lynn helped me with mission
history and now I’m back to finishing this. In doing the mission history, I’ve been redoing the letters
that the missionaries have been sending me of special experiences they have had
on their mission, re-filing, putting on colored borders etc. In the process I’ve re-read the
experiences they have had and it just warms your heart to read of the miracles
they experienced. It is wonderful
being here!!! I love the Lord, my
mission, the people in our ward and my “kids.” I know the church is true—that knowledge brings great
peace.
Love to
you all—Kathy/Mom