Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Aaron 5/5/14

May 5, 2014

Life is Good…Eternal Life is Better!

Hey all! It's been a crazy week! The beginning of the week we spent all on bikes, since we were all out of miles. They changed the way miles work, so that was a surprise to us, but well worth it! Extra learning to budget! (Something I desperately need! My mom can attest to that. ;))

Monday was pretty fun, for P-day we went to the lake and did some Frisbee golf there. It was raining, but it was still super fun. Afterwards we had a part member family who needed some help, so we went with a member to help them out. They were pretty cool, since they have a Dairy farm and all the calfs were out to the side of the house. Baby cows are cute! haha. But still smelly.

Tuesday we were on bikes all day. It was super nice though. Bright, sunny day! Until the afternoon when a massive thunderstorm was heading in. Luckily we got back to our apartment on time and a member went with us for the evening. 

Wednesday we went to a new investigator family's home to talk their 13 year old son into going to Mutual. HE decided he wanted to go, after we said there would be ice cream! The Frost family is really awesome. They don't have a lot of stuff, but there are 4 kids during the week and 6 on weekends, and they're all super crazy! The best part is that they all like coming to church, and hopefully they will continue to do so. We are going to be teaching the Mom and Dad more about the Restoration on Friday, and then inviting the whole family to get baptized! Pray for them!! 

Wednesday evening after our weekly missionary coordination meeting we had to get a ride up to the church building to meet up the the Assistants to the President to set up for interviews the next day. We were there long past the curfew, but we got planning done while we were waiting for them to show up. One of the APs, Elder K, served in Newark ward a few months before I did, so we ended up talking for a while about Newark and the families and investigators there. 

Thursday morning we did a lot of work around our apartment, and then in the early afternoon we went to the church for interviews with President Nilsen. These were the best interviews I've been to on my mission, and I think a big part of it was there was only our Zone there. All the ones in the past have been 4 plus zones all needing to be interviewed. We had a little more time and President was a lot more relaxed. He's an awesome guy, I'm going to miss him and Sister Nilsen when they go home. 

Afterwards we found a new investigator named Velah. It was funny because we had tracted this street a few weeks ago, and parked in front of a house. Accidentally we took up two parking sports, so when we got back to the car there was a note on our window saying how rude it was for us to do that. Oops! So we went back and apologized, and got a new investigator out of it! She thought it was the neighbors who they've had problems with haha. 

The weekend was good, we got a lot of work done, but nothing too spectacular happened. We decided we wanted to deliver "heart-softening"cookies to some part-member families and a few investigators, but we didn't have anything to make them with. We tried a new technique and had a member help us make them. Super legit haha!

I love and miss you all! Sorry this is a shorter letter!

I know the gospel is true, and that the Savior is real. I know that his Atonement is so much more that saving us from our sins, but it the force and power that allows us to change our natures and become better. I know that's true, and by putting God first everyone can know that. I know the Book of Mormon is real, and it is not a cool story, but holy scripture. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

~Elder Aaron Toombs





Kathy 5/5/14

May 5, 2014

Dear Family and Friends—
            Happy Cinco de Mayo!!  It’s a lovely day outside, but still windy and cold—windy and cold, the operative words for this spring. 
            Busy week—I’ll need to get right down to it and condense it a bit since today is, and will continue to be a very busy day.
            Last Monday, we had 30 people come to FHE.  So, three weeks ago we had thirty, two weeks ago we had 29 and last week we had 30.  This may not mean much to you, but it is huge!  We have been thrilled with the attendance.  We know it won’t happen tonight since some have already told us they wouldn’t be there.  But, we had a great activity and again, more food than we needed since Br. Soleta decided to celebrate Dyan going on a mission by bringing his contribution.
            Tuesday, per usual, was temple day.  A week earlier, I had asked Sis. Corsan (the women’s coordinator for our shift) to put Lynn and I on a regular session as patrons.  I had one last male name to get the endowment done and wanted Lynn to do it.  Much to my surprise, I was put on a session as a patron, but Lynn wasn’t!  Lynn went to Br. Corsan and asked if his schedule could be changed so he could go with me and get that last family name done.  Br. Corsan chided him a little saying Lynn should have given him some notice before hand to get the schedule changed.  Lynn told him that I had talked to Sis. Corsan about putting him on the session.  Br. Corsan then became thoughtful and said that he remembered then that she did tell him to do that.  All’s swell that ends well.  Mer—we forgot to pick up the card and will pick it up tomorrow and send you all the cards.  Yay!  The rest of the day went so nicely—another day in temple paradise.  Made two loaves of bread after getting back home.
            Wednesday—wow, now that day was spent with me in the kitchen.  I made a quick trip to the grocery store to get a few things and then came home to make a chicken/grape salad; used 10 eggs for egg salad; made a cherry bar dessert and a dessert called Éclair Cake.  Then, made sandwiches using my homemade bread and some croissants.  We took a lot of things with us to Institute that night, getting there extra early to set up tables and food.  The Tenney’s bought chips and a large relish tray so we were set for our early “last day of Institute before the break, celebration of Dyan’s mission” dinner.  Dyan has been a grand excuse for a lot of parties!!!
            We discussed Elder Hales talk “If Ye Love Me, Keep My Commandments.”  We had a new investigator in the class and talking about keeping first and second estates and eternal life and everything that implies, with her there, got me off on an uncertain start—I really didn’t have time to interview her to find out what she did or did not know about our doctrine.  I was uncomfortable and it came across that way, but Lynn came to my rescue on some critical things, plus others in the class made some outstanding comments and the lesson settled down, only to become one of the best lessons that I thought had ever been given in the class.  I ended up bearing my testimony of the truth of the gospel and the things we were talking about; also, talked about the Book of Mormon and the role of Joseph Smith.  It was a sweet experience. 
            After class, we invited the missionaries in the hall to come and finish the rest of the food and they were so very eager to do that.  We had a small group eat at seven, so there were plenty of leftovers.  I grabbed Barbara (the investigator) and gave her a big hug and apologized for my shaky beginning but she told me that she already understood a lot of what I had been talking about and really enjoyed the class a lot.  Whew.  That was a relief.
            One interesting thing that happened that Wednesday is the East coast had a lot of rain and we got 2+ inches that day in Brooklyn.  We were told that the two Elders in 5H (our old apartment) could not come to the church that night because they had water in their apartment.  Uh-Oh!  We knew all about that since we got water in through the ceiling, off the windows, when we lived there before.  So, we cleaned up as fast as we could and made our way back to the apartment.  When we got to 5H, there were four Elders mopping up water, using every towel available—it was a mess!  They had told our Super about the situation but their next door neighbor, Pat, is not afraid to mince words with anyone and the Elders told us she had yelled at Brian about what had happened in 5H.  We have decided not to deal with all that mess and bureaucracy and will take the Elders out of the apartment when we leave.  We found out Saturday that there will not be a couple to replace us when we go, so we will leave 5A for one set of the Sisters and have the mission abandon 5H.  The two Elders in that apartment got a plate of food each from us.
            Next day, Thursday.  Lynn and I knew that a production crew from the HBO sitcom, “Girls” was going to be in our building and in the front on Thursday morning.  We had a date that day with Claudette Clark, an angel lady from our ward.  She has wanted to take us out on an excursion and lunch for a long time, so Thursday was the day.  We were in our foyer at 9:45 and greeted by a lot of people and a LOT of equipment.  Actually, they were through filming and were starting to pack up.  We took a lot of pictures.  The outside/front of the building was also filled with people and equipment who were packing up.  When we got to the corner of the street there were the stars of the show getting in a van to go to the next location.  I have heard of the show “Girls” but only heard of it, never seen it.  New York is the prime location for a lot of TV shows.
            Lynn and I made it by train to the New York Transit Museum which was located at an old, abandoned subway stop.  It was a very interesting place with pictures and explanations plus artifacts and models lining the walls and corridors.  It was especially interesting to read the history of how they put the tunnels under the East River for two lines.  These subways were constructed in the late 1890’s so you can only imagine the best minds, best engineering were brought to bear to get the train underway.  Apparently Boston and New York were having a contest to see who could get their system up and going first.  Irish immigrants were the main body of workers for this project.  Down in the lower half of the museum were old subway cars, some going back to 1918, I believe.  They came complete with old advertisements that line the walls of our subways (just the upper walls).
            After that, we took a short bus ride to Juniors, the old iconic restaurant in downtown Brooklyn, famous especially for their yummy cheesecake, which I have talked about before.  I ordered a 10 ounce hamburger which came with fries and a couple of onion rings, but my goodness, they also put pickled cole slaw, pickled beets and dill pickles on the table to eat with your meal.  Also, a basket with potato rolls and corn bread.  You simply could not go away hungry, you went away stuffed.  Claudette insisted that we get a slice of chocolate mousse cheesecake for dessert and then bought us one more to take home.  Chocolate mousse cheesecake is to die for, BTW.  A lot of food went home with us that afternoon!
            Well, a huge meal deserves a big walk.  I changed my clothes, donned my Yankees hat and went off to Prospect Park.  Much to my astonishment, at the edge of the park on the streets there was a stream of water running down the edge.  I went a little further and there was a lot of water coming across the street.  A little further down and I could see what was going on.  The area I start walking at, the south end, is on the low side of the park, further north is higher ground.  When it rained the lake filled to overflowing, and so did the springs which feed the lake, so the water naturally went to the lower south side.  It really wasn’t a problem and there were hundreds and hundreds of walkers, bikers etc. to attest to that, but it was interesting to see.  There was a low spot in a meadow in the park which filled up with water and created a new lake.  A lot of flowering trees to see on the walk—it was glorious.  Lynn took a bike ride trying to hit some stores that would hopefully have information on Bermuda.  He didn’t have much luck.
            Friday was catch-up day with writing and studying then Lynn and I went to the Botanic Gardens to see what condition they were in.  We were satisfied that the gardens were beautiful enough for the senior missionaries to enjoy the next day—only one uncertainty, the weather.
            The Lord blessed us with beautiful weather on Saturday.  It was warm enough and partly cloudy.  Lynn and I left our apartment early in the car so we could park on the streets then take the train to meet up with the senior missionary couples, at, well, Juniors again!!  We had made arrangements a month earlier to go to eat at Juniors and then take a tour of the Botanic Gardens, so when Claudette took us there to eat we were excited because then we could find out personally, beforehand, what we were getting ourselves into. 
            There were two couples waiting for us when we got there and we waited a half hour outside for the others to show up, and then went inside to order.  Need to tell you that our beloved “F” train, the one that we ride 90% of the time had been derailed in Queens causing 19 injuries.  Because of this, there were problems on many other lines and we waited an hour for the rest of the group to show up.  Juniors was good with this and were ready and waiting when the others finally showed up.  Pres. and Sis. Calderwood also came with the AP’s who were glad to get a free meal.  We had a great time socializing and getting to know some of the new couples.
            Then to the gardens by train.  The BBG was packed to the gills with people.  It was Saturday, the cherry trees were finally completely blooming, it was warm, it was beautiful—so, the people came.  Dealing with our older group was like herding turtles—they were super slow, but that’s reality so we took our time and showed them our favorite things and after an hour and a half, they were on their own. 
            Our day was not over.  We came back, got changed and went to the Park Slope Chapel for the Saturday night Conference session.  They decided to try an experiment and have the meeting at 5 pm so mothers could come with their children if they needed to.  I believe it worked—there were a lot of little kids in the chapel and overflow and apparently a lot of couples with children upstairs where the nursery area is located.  We had a great meeting, the presenters interacting with the audience a lot.  We took Claudette home and then settled in for the night.
            The next day we took the train to the Marriott Hotel by the Brooklyn Bridge (yes, that’s what it’s called) for the Sunday meeting.  The first order of business after the meeting started was to release the 1st councilor in the stake presidency and replace him with an Hispanic man from Dyker Heights Spanish Ward, which was a needed, good move.  They had a lot of speakers, with good messages.  Dyan’s brother, Isaac stood to be sustained as an Elder.  He’ll go on a mission in about 6 months.  After the meeting was over there were a lot of people to talk to and we were among the last to leave.  Went down to the train station and waited a half hour for that train to show up—ugh!
            That night we went to Lana and Tanya Golikova’s apartment with a video in tow about temples.  One of the messages from conference was to get our converts to the temple to take out their endowments.  We had about 280 baptisms in our stake in the last four years and only 16 of those people have taken out their endowments—ouch!  Lana is one of those people, so we talked to her about going to the temple.  She said she is going to start taking temple prep classes pretty soon, so that was gratifying.  Still, having our own little lesson with her was instructive and both paid attention to what we had to say.  
            After such a busy week, I was tired last night and went to bed earlier than usual. 
            The gospel of Jesus Christ as restored through the prophet Joseph Smith is true.  The Book of Mormon is the word of God and it oozes the Spirit of the Lord when you read its pages.  : )   It has been my blessing to teach the Institute class—as the teacher always learns more than the students and this has been a year of learning. 
            Wish you all well this week and hope it’s a good one!
            Love, Mom/Kathy


Ben 5-5-14

***Here is Ben's Email. It is short and mostly just notes about what he wants to tell us about on Sunday when we get to Skype with him for Mother's Day!!!! I can't wait. It will be the last time we Skype with him before he comes home December 17th. The next time we Skype (Christmas day) it will be with Ben at home and Nate in Georgia. (Let me know if you want to be on the email group for Nate.)  Also, It is Ben's birthday May 29th if you want to email or write a letter. I am sure he would love to hear from you! Thanks! ***

Hey Fam!

How are ya? Sounds like we're about due for an old skyperooo! To answer the immediate questions.  I will probably just Skype from my ipad at the church. Email any information I might need.  We'll plan on about 7:30my time which is about 5:30 your time... Unless anything comes up.  I'll shoot you a quick email if plans change.
 
Man I am loving the mish! I'm starting to feel old as I approach the ripe old age of 20......  LeBron Swept that is awesome!!! Please have some details for me on Sunday!!! RING # 3!  Yes this week the Ft Lauderdaletemple was dedicated and broadcast to us.  Elder D Todd gave a good talk, but Investigators couldn't come to church so that was a downside.  Armando was a little upset hahaha.
 
Also I will need to see Matt back to back with mom so I can see how much he has grown since I left!  Don't rub it in that you guys got to go fishing! That is cool we got the old boat runnin' again!!! Nice country music references pop!
 
So a list of things you can remind me about
Mike, bro tice, bro Ivy
Shantrese (who is getting baptized in two days!!!) Wednesday at 6! (and all her anger episodes)
All my companions!
Irene and Darion! Our miracle of the transfer! Darion is an RM and Irene is his non member wife. They met at slcc (she is from FL) we have had some extremely spiritual experiences with them. Darion should be here for basketball soon.
Massaros and Vickers families
Cervantes fam
 
Oh ya tell me more about coach Liebert!  Dixie State better have my spot when I get back! Hahaha (way out of shape) Don't worry though. 
 
I'm just really excited to see you all!
Come prepared with reports on school and work, Girls, sports, mission prep, new hobbies, plans, dreams, etc!  It is going to be a blessing- last time I see you for a long time!!! 
Love ya!!!
 
Talk to you soon!!!
Elder G

 
President Berry,
I think temple tours are an instrumental way to help Investigators set their vision on the temple.  I think also teaching the pattern of covenants in our lessons will help them in the long run.  Baptism is not an end it is the gate! All the covenants in the church support each other.  Only through the priesthood can families be together, yet no unbaptized mother or father can be sealed to their loved ones.  Principles of Obedience, sacrifice, chastity and consecration are all learned in preparing to be baptized, and we can help them recognize when they do things that will now become a central part of their journey back to their heavenly father.
Elder Gottfredson