Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Ben 4/28/14



***Here is Ben's email. He is answering our questions and replying to stories we told him in the first part of the letter. Make sure you read the letter to his mission president at the end of the email for the info on his contacts this week. Brother John is in our ward. He was Ben's leader before he left and now he will be Matt's leader. He told stories about Ben and his scary driving experiences in class on Sunday.  Ben gives Nate some advice on the temple. He talks about his bike a little too. (Can you tell we are asking for advice for all of the things Nate will need to buy and take on his mission!?!?!?) I will attach a few pictures from Ben's district mud fight they had on P-day. Same old Ben.....He has always loved to play in the dirt.
 
It is Ben's Birthday on May 29th. He would love to get letters and pictures from any of you who want to send them. I will put his address below. You can also email a letter back to me and I will print it and include it in his birthday box. ENJOY! ***
 
Elder Ben Gottfredson
Florida Orlando Mission
10502 Satellite BLVD. Ste. E
Orlando, FL 32837
 
 
My dear sweet family!
 
How the heck are ya?!?!?! This week was a week full of miracles!   As you'll read in Presidents email we found an awesome family! Eddie and fam! Eddie looks like D wade and he came to play basketball today so hopefully he has a little more respect for me now ha ha!  We have the most new investigators we've had in a while! Ya I think spring break is the time to come!!!  I really don't need any thing for my birthday. My birthday present would just be a letter! Pictures! That's it.
 
Matt I hope you had a great birthday!!! I love you man! Don't listen to everything brother John tells you!!! He's a blasphemer! Hahaha he'll make you teach the law of Chastity!  How did he find out! Man Matt, don't try that stuff at home! You need a baby like the Olds to do something like that!  Brother John is awesome!!!  We have a member named brother Ivy who reminds me of an older Thomas John! He helps a lot and takes us for crazy rides!
 
Temple will be fun man! Ask if you can do the second to last video that came out! Get your pants big, the last thing you want is anything ridin' up when your on the steel horses! Check out the book of Moses. You'll do great! If it helps, the only time I've been to the temple on my mission I put everything on inside out and made everyone wait! 
 
I think Ironically me standing up on my bike has wore on it a little. I think a bike like mine should be fine. Though I have had to replace the spokes and true the rim thrice now. Hopefully, it will last me the rest of themish. Today I got to email Smith! His life is in danger. It's likely me and him will be the last ones married!!!  We still have fun left to have!!!  Say Hi to Brady! 
 
Nate sounds like you had a good promeroo! I dig the Joe Don Stash! I love each of you so much!!! I pray for you!  Matt keep keepin it real with Harrison! Have a good summer! Make some memories and be safe! Mom I love you! What would you like for Mothers day! You deserve the best present because you are the best mom! Dad, keep holding down the fort! Thanks for always being a great example! How could I doubt the gospel with the example you show? I can't wait to have you guys as a team to go see some formers in my old areas! We'll do a little teacheroo!   I love you tons!!! Keep the faith!
 
Elder G
President Berry
This week we saw many miracles with the Lord opening the hearts of the people.  We planned to find a lot this week, and the Lord came through for us!   There was a family who just by making a few simple connections with them the let us in and were excited to read the Book of Mormon by the time we left. Eddie the father asked me this afternoon when we made contact what were some more of the key passages he could read.  I think the members play a critical role in softening hearts. In fact without them I haven't ever seen a heart fully softened. A member taught them with us and invited them to the ward activity this Saturday!
Also this week, we softened Valerie's heart just by doing a little service for her.  I think a genuine smile and a positive attitude is the best how to begin teaching.  We asked her questions about herself and emphasized things she is doing in her life that show faith in Christ, like us, our investigators have more faith than they think they do.  We found out she is a famous Artist and children's author.  We were able to pull out her interests and questions and lay a good foundation.  I would also add that having companion unity is key to softening hearts.   We have been so blessed by the Lord softening the members and the investigators hearts.  Thanks for all the training that is coming down, the district is 100% committed and we are seeing miracles.
Elder Gottfredson

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Ben 4/21/14

***Here is Ben's Email. He talks about our trip to Lake Powell this past weekend with my brother Darrin's family. The water level in Lake Powell is so low. He tells Nate to talk to college basketball coaches right now and secure a place on their team even if he chooses not to play when he gets home. He talks about his Easter box that I sent him. We have been having problems with the apartment building he lives in delivering his boxes so we had to send it to a Senior couple in his ward. Enjoy the story about his fake referral he created. lol (Same old Ben!) He mentions that this will be his first companion to kill. If you don't know, that just means that the companion he is with will be going home. No murder is involved. He also talks about how Nate caught a snake at Lake Powell and how  Gary is upset because our boat we have had for 15 years is not running very well right now. I included a letter to his mission president at the end. He has a number of upcoming baptisms. ENJOY!!!***
 
Family!!!

Man! Hope you had a great time at Lake Powelly! I can't believe it's
that empty! What an atrocity!  I'm sorry you were sick Matt! That is
fun you got to go with Darrin's fam. Man his kids look
huge! Not only am I worried about DJ being buffer than me, I'm worried
about Dillon and Trevor!  I think DJ is going to wind up next to me on
the line at D state!  By the way while I'm thinkin about it, Nate you
ought to take a little bit of time to express some interest to play at
the schools that are looking at you. It would be a good investment.  I
know you are kinda sports out right now, but think about it.  It's
easier to get yourself set up now and back out later than it is to not
show interest now and try to hop back on later. Just a thought!

Matt congrats on student council big guy!!! King of the school!!!
Thanks so much for your box mom! Pants are perfect and I should be
good on supplies for now!  I think You could send stuff to the
Johnson's for now, they are the Sr couple you sent the box to. I'm
going to be in golden rod for May and June, and then in July I'll be
somewhere else so you can send my things to the mission office again.
I hope you all had a wonderful Easter!  We had a great day and
everything was dandy.  As well as Easter it was also 4/20.  We went to
see a less active and he was trippin for sure!  It was so funny and
sad to hear him start to talk about the gospel high!  He went on a
hilarious rant and ended up throwing a cup holder at my companions
face! Me and Hamilton (the member who was out with us) just started
bustin up.  In the end though, I thought about how an addiction is like
chappy lips.  When your lips are dry and you need relief, at first you
might lick your lips our pour some water on them thinking that will
help, but you will realize that it is just covering up the problem and
it just makes it worse the next time. "What is the only way to
help chappy lips?  "Chapstick of course".  Right, sometimes called lip
balm, prophets have compared the Atonement of Jesus Christ to the
"balm of Gilead" because it is the only true healer..... We'll see if
he remembers his commitment to talk to the bishop.... hahaha

To answer your question about companions.  You just have to wear the
pants.  Really it's not so bad. I have been blessed with really good
companions!!!  This is the first one I get to kill!  If you guys go up
North after May 21st you could go see him!

This week I went on an exchange with Elder U., who reminds me a lot
of our cousin Mykal. Which is crazy because he's from Pennsylvania.
One talent I've been perfecting is impressions of other missionaries
voices and figures of speech.  Elder C. his companion is as dry as
they come, stalwart missionary, but just dry.  Anyway, I called all
the missionaries in our district and gave them a fake referral as
Elder C.  Ronnie D. a paralympic athlete was the character we
created only one arm. Also with that arm he plays the oboe.  Elder
U. came to the Florida Orlando Mission and was a visa waiter.  When he got to Brazil he
got sick and got sent back to the FOM. When he arrived back in the FOM
he found that his trainer was sent home for disobedience.  So on the
exchange we practiced having fun and being obedient.  We saw miracles.
Met this guy named David who had a 'intellectual' lesson for us.  Man
the gospel is so simple.  Question #1 do you believe in the divinity
of Jesus Christ.  That's always a simple question to get agnostics
backpedaling.  You can work off that.  If they are Christian they have
to understand that God is setting up the kingdom of God.  Daniel 2 is
one of my favorite chapters.  Got is setting up a Kingdom. There is no
divisions in the kingdom of God. Our church is the only thing that
matches up with the Bible. Probably one of the biggest fronts that is
spreading like wildfire here in Florida and I can see foreshadowing to
get even bigger in the future.  Non-Denominational churches.  A lot of
these people are really really great. It's half-truths, the teachings
of men mingled with scripture.  A lot of the "all is well in Zion",
Rock concerts in church, and eloquently penned sermons from paid
professionals. No belief in Ordinances or repentance. Fence-sitters on
doctrine.  Anyway, don't get me started haha.  People really like to
hear it around hear is all.

My friend Mike (recent convert) is planning out his endowment
and sealing for next year, he would like to know which week spring
break is so I can be there.
Also how is LBJ doing?  Ring #3 correct?

Anyways, I love you guys tons!!! Have a good Family Home Evening!!! I pray for you
each individually and often!!! I love you! Nate I'm glad you are
having fun with snakes now, on your mission you'll find a whole new
meaning to the work snakes and vipers! Dad If you are sad about the
boat imagine how I feel about the olds(;  Momma, don't let your babies
grow up to be cowboys.  Can't wait for mothers day! Matt! HAPPY
BIRTHDAY!!!

Love Elder G



President Berry,

This month we are looking forward to sacred opportunities to baptize
in May.  Shantrese  will be our first baptism.  She is a single
mother with a very hectic financial situation. She is always working
doubles so it's hard for her to consistently come to church.  It has
really helped her the times she has come so we are just praying
something will work out.  Next should be Matthew. He is a
Member referral we received through a Member posting on facebook. We
are just making sure he understands our purpose and the challenges and
blessings he can expect.  The timeline has really helped.  The
Timeline has also helped a ton with Justin, who would be our
next baptism. His date is May 24th.  Also our dear friend Armando will
be baptized May 31st and confirmed June 1st.  We are just doing our
best to apply the inspired timeline and planning principles as we have
been instructed so we can help our friends make this sacred covenant
and help them receive those blessings that come with it.

Elder Gottfredson

Monday, April 21, 2014

Meriden 4/20/14

April 20, 2014

Happy Easter!!  I hope that everyone had a fabulous Easter!  I am so grateful for the Atonement and for all that our Savior did for us so many years ago.

This will be quick tonight.  We went to some friends’ home for Easter dinner today.  It was great spending time with them; we were there a bit longer than I would have liked.

We spent a couple days looking at houses.  We have a couple possibilities, but still, nothing that I’ve really fallen in love with.

I continue to train; in fact, I’ve run 5 miles a couple times (which is good for me).  Except for Monday, the weather has been amazing this week; so one day, I did run outside and it was nice. My bike is almost ready to ride outside.  I’ve decided that I really need to get out and bike more, then maybe my legs won’t be quite so tired after riding 15 miles and then I would be able to more easily run 3 miles after biking.

I did sub ½ day and I’ve been working on applications for a few different school districts.  I should have them ready to mail out by Wednesday. 

We went to dinner with some friends Friday evening which was lots of fun. 

I sang in our ward choir today.  We sang “I Know That My Redeemer Lives”.  The choir director is very good and the song was beautiful. 

Jim leaves on Friday to go back to New York.

This is a bit short, but that is really about all the news.  Have a great week!

Love,
Meriden/Mom



 


Aaron 4/21/14

April 21, 2014

Two Weeks of Awesome!

Hey all, sorry for not writing a long email last week. I was a little lazy. It's a lot of work moving your fingers a few inches. :)

So last week..is hard to remember already! I'll just give highlights! Two weeks ago a sister in the ward died, and we just happened to visit her daughter the day after. We hadn't heard about it yet. Wednesday the 9th was her funeral, so after Zone meeting we booked it back to our church building to get there, since her daughter asked Elder Mosley and I to be pallbearers. It's a good thing too, since the other pallbearers were all under the age of 14, excepting one other guy. It was a very good funeral. This sister had been in the ward for many many years, and well known and loved by everyone. Right after the funeral, we got a call from a part-member family who needed help moving, so we booked it from there way out to this small house in the country to move a bunch of the heavy stuff into the Uhaul they got (Since everyone knows us missionary boys are famous for manual labor and moving heavy things. Stripling warriors!!) The rest of last Wednesday was super stressful and busy as well, so we were completely dead by the end of the day. Some of the most tired I've been in a long time. It was awesome!

Thursday through Sunday were not too much to speak of (at least that I can remember. I only have my planner her, not my journal. Sorry!). 

Now we're back to this week. I don't remember if I've told you already or not, but along with readying 10-15 pages of the Book of Mormon each day, I've been studying the Doctrine and Covenants as well. Talk about motivating for missionaries! Just about every section has some tip or advice on how to be a better missionary. I've been marking it up like crazy! 

Last Monday we were able to meet this awesome guy named Bill. He's about 70 years old, and has been going to the same Lutheran church for 48 years. But we got to talking with him for about a half hour, and he decided that he actually was interested! It was pretty funny, since for the first 20 minutes he thought we were Jehovah's Witnesses, who he had talked to a little years before. After he realized that we weren't, he suddenly started saying all these things he disagreed with their church. I chuckled inside. haha!

Tuesday we spent a lot of time working with part-member families and recent converts. We are trying to turn the ward into a missionary force of it's own, and for the members to have confidence in the Lord's promise that they will be helped and blessed, so we found a few small successes from that. 

Wednesday we had a really fun district meeting. We did an activity where one sister (the investigator) was blindfolded and had to walk 3 or 4 times across the cultural hall. The catch was that 4 missionaries were "the adversary" and were trying to hit her with balls to keep her from reaching the goal. The rest of us had the charge to protect this sister from getting hit. Lots of fun! We also talked a lot about faith, something that is always pushed by President Nilsen and something we all can have more of. Afterwards, we helped a couple who are ward missionaries re-arrange their furniture in their living room. (They're old. haha). The McGlaughlins are some of my favorite people in the ward, so don't worry. Brother McGlaughlin is hilarious, and would approve of me calling him old. :)

We also went and visited a recent convert who recently had surgery for potential cancer. It was a pretty bad visit. Mostly because she picked up the habit of smoking like crazy again, and got a roommate who is nearly a chain smoker. I just wanted to complain about how much tobacco smoke annoys me. It's so obnoxious. 

Thursday we got to go to the temple!!!!!!!! FINALLY! I hadn't been in a year, nearly to the day! I love being able to go to the temple, even if it is packed like a can of sardines with the whole zone in there. I finally got to see the new temple film too. So awesome!!! My companion tells me it's the old-new film, not the new-new one. I loved it. I want to go back! I also saw a member from Moundbuilders ward there, and got to talk with the Temple President for a while. I've met him before, he's an awesome guy. 

On Friday we got a surprise because we got a call from one of our assistants, Elder Nygren. He's been doing a mission tour, and decided he wanted to come work the day with Elder Mosley and I. So we drove over the the next area over and picked him up and had a really good day! We had planned really well the night before, and it's always invigorating to be able to work with other missionaries. It was a beautiful day, so we did a lot of walking, had an awesome dinner with a part-member family that we've been working with, the Calls, and found a bunch of new investigators and potentials. He can do the mission tour right now because they just called a 3rd and a 4th Assistant. The older ones, Elder Nygren and Elder K are going home at the end of this transfer, so they're "training" the new APs. So the older ones are taking turns going around the areas while the other stays and works with the new ones.

Saturday was awesome! We got to get up and go do service for most of the day! Yay t-shirts and sunshine!!! We first went to a recent converts house/small farm and did work there, and then after lunch went and helped this 90 year old lady who we met the day before, as she was doing yard work by herself. It was super sweet to help her out, since she reminds me a lot of Grandma Slocum. 

I ended up getting a really good sunburn on my arms, neck, and face. About time! I've been so white forever it's terrible! So now I've already gotten a pretty good farmers tan built up. haha!
Yesterday for Easter we went to get another part-member family awake to come to church, and they said they would. Unfortunately, they just didn't show up. Bummer. Luckily, a couple other investigators we weren't expecting showed up for Easter with their family, who we're going to start teaching this week! Aw yiss! We had dinner at the Stephens, a kinda strange family of the ward. They're huge into playing difficult strategy board games, reading fantasy and scifi, and quilting. It made for interesting conversation, but we had a bonfire and made smore's for dessert. We had a good time! 

Today we went Disc Golfing as a district, so that was pretty fun. We also played some soccer and football. Taking advantage of the perfect weather!! Love it!

I love and miss you all! I hope everything in Missouri, Arizona, or wherever you are is going fantastic!

Mom and Dad, Brother McGlaughlin, the old guy I talked about earlier, told me to make sure and remind you that you love me! He says that parents sometimes forget that ;)

Have a great week!
Elder Aaron Toombs


Kathy 4/21/14

April 21, 2014

Dear Family and Friends—
            It is a nice, warm beautiful day outside, as contrasted with a very cold week we had last week—and here I thought spring had completely arrived.  We had snow and ice on our balcony about a week ago.  The freezing temps played havoc with the magnolia trees that had already started blooming in the Botanic gardens.  So, when we went to the gardens this past Friday, the magnolia trees were turning brown too soon and the “show” wasn’t even as close to being pretty as we saw last year--a big disappointment.  We’re supposed to have the Senior Missionaries here on May 3 so they can see the gardens in all their glory; I’m quite worried about “all their glory.”
            Lynn and I have already been to see (this morning) the doctor that I’ve been seeing about my sinus infection.  My left ear still is plugged up despite the medication that I’ve been using to getting it unplugged.  It’s been so annoying!  So, today he decided to use strong arm tactics and gave me a prescription of heavy duty amoxicillin.  I’m counting on this working. 
            Let’s see—a week ago we had 30 people for FHE, a very large group.  Unfortunately the family responsible for doing it was unprepared and the only ones who could answer the charade depictions from the Book of Mormon were missionaries.  That is a big groan.  We had some children there who have never come before, which was nice except one girl (6) turned out to be a one-woman wrecking crew so totally out of control that Lynn took her and the other kids upstairs to the large foyer off the chapel, blew up balloons and had the kids play games with them.  One other adult joined to help him.  The rescue for the evening was when the dad of the family had a really special refreshment to finish off the activity.  It was also the night before transfers so there was a lot of picture taking with members and the missionaries that were leaving.  FHE, boy, you just never know from week to week how it’s going to turn out.
            The next day was transfer day, but this was no ordinary transfer—for the first time in Pres. Calderwood’s administration, the entire mission came to this transfer.  And, we found out why—they were turning the 10 zones into 12 that day.  (About 8 months ago we went from 9 to 10).   And for the first time ever, they were formally releasing missionaries from leadership positions in front of everyone and everyone was given the chance to sustain the new leadership.  Also, over the weekend a new stake was organized from a district which means Pres. Calderwood doesn’t have to worry about ecclesiastical leadership for any part of the mission except for responsibilities with the missionaries.  The new stake president talked to us for quite a while—he is Mr. Gung-Ho, I’ll tell you.  He’s been a bishop three times and been a stake president once and he joined the church in Queens when he was 31—he’s looks like he’s in his mid-60’s now.  I had a chance to see the many missionaries that we knew quite well and big hugs to Sis. Millett who came to NYNYS mission just three weeks before we did and she was going home!  But, the biggest and best surprise of the day was sitting on the hallway floor going to the mission office downstairs.  I looked at the two sisters sitting there, who were comparing notes, and one looked very familiar—it was Sis. Williams who had to go back to Spanish Fork to try and figure out why she was having such horrible headaches!  She told me that no doctor could figure out why she was having the headaches.   Then her dad (who was told to leave the family when Sis. Williams was six because he was an alcoholic and after a period of time just had nothing to do with the kids) died from his drinking.  So sad.  But, he was always dad to her despite the estranged relationship.  The very next day after the funeral, her headaches completely disappeared and have not returned.  Obviously, Heavenly Father wanted her in Utah to be with her family and take time for dad and then, back to her mission she went.   She was actually released and then re-called.
            That night, Lynn went down close to Coney Island area, to experience a Seder.  I really didn’t want to go, but do have some regrets now although, I was very, very busy that night getting Institute ready.  Lynn said it was a group of poor Jews from the Russian, old USSR territories and he said it was a situation for those with very little money—plastic plates etc., a Seder program (the booklet) was subsidized from a large grocery store chain in Brooklyn, and only about 30 people came but a group deeply grateful that Lynn would think to come to their Seder.  I believe he found out about it on line.  They didn’t start till after nine pm and went to midnight.  Lynn said it was not fancy but it was still very nice.  Some things were different from our Utah experience, some things the same.  Apparently a young man in his early 20’s who spoke good English (the others had heavy accents) took Lynn under his wing and helped him understand what was happening and some history behind the group that showed up. 
            The next day was prep for Institute and a lot of worry since we were discussing Elder Christofferson’s talk on the Resurrection and I was anticipating our Jewish friend, Jack, to come.  Since its Passover week he did not come and so we had a great discussion with an enhanced group (the Elder’s Quorum presidency meets together at the same time we do, but some in the group were late and the others joined us toward the end of the class).  Lynn showed a short video of Elder Holland speaking about the Atonement to finish off the class.  A nice surprise was when Dyan Banana came to class all dressed up.  Why?  Well, she had just come back from the temple to take out her endowments as part of her preparation to go on her mission.  We were all very excited for her.  With part of my preparation for this class on the Resurrection I was fit to be tied about the scattered details in the Gospels about the events that happened around the Resurrection.  I was grateful to Elder Christofferson’s scripture references, but I just really wanted to put it all together with a people/line and a time/line and just get down to the nitty-gritty details.  I think I did a darn good job and will send the results, but I want to put the references down on the paper that I handed out, which were not typed up.
            Thursday and Friday were quiet days, days of catching up on many things including a lot of laundry.  Lynn and I watched “Saving Mr. Banks” on Friday night.  Such an interesting movie. 
            Went shopping Saturday and came home and did a lot of food prep for Easter, but also got some nice ribs in the oven for dinner that night, and tried a baked French toast recipe of my own making—didn’t like it but its tasted better after the fact.  Then I tackled Elder Hales talk on obedience.  I really wanted to do this talk for my last time as Institute teacher (will teach it next week) but it is a bear to get through and understand.  And, you’ve got to get through the litany of absolutes in the talk while addressing all of us imperfect people.  Still, the message “tells it like it is” in our need to be obedient.
            Lynn and I went to visit three families that night for home teaching; two were home, and one wasn’t.  We had a super visit with the two we went to.  We saw the inactive Claude’s.  Her dad, Joe, was there again and he had questions about the church which we were happy to answer.  We asked him if he was interested in getting a Book of Mormon and he said “yes” so we will get him one.
            Had a nice Easter at Church which included ward council ahead of time, and talking to a number of new people after all the meetings were over with.  Then Lynn and I went to Carline and Zebb Pierre’s place for a Haitian style Easter dinner.  She’s wanted to have us over for quite a while to sample her Haitian food and we were very grateful for the invitation.  It was quite good—the interesting thing was all the starches—potato salad, macaroni and cheese and rice and beans were the big part of the menu.  We also had rooster which had been cooked for a very long time to make it tender.  Rooster, by the way, is extremely boney.  We did have a large lettuce salad and roasted carrots and beets, so the veg’s were there.  Her kitchen is so small, she cut anything that needed to be cut by putting it in her hand and using the knife to slice and dice.  She was quite skilled at it.   After dinner, Carline’s brother showed up.  He’s the oldest living child in her family and can’t quite seem to figure out that you are supposed to work and earn a living.  He expressed an interest in the Church and wanted to have discussions from the missionaries, so we got that all set up.  Personally, he makes me suspicious…..
            It was great to talk to Ken’s family last night; the boys were eager to show what they got in their Easter baskets—a bunch of Bay Blades.  Also talked to Sean’s family and caught up with their activities.  I appreciate Bob getting us information about Bryant’s skills playing baseball, and other family information—thanks Bob and Moira!
            The Church is true.  Grateful for this season of Easter to reflect on the great gift of the Atonement and the restoration of the Church and especially grateful for the truths we know and can share with others.  Lynn is working on to give a presentation about the church to the Jews he visits with on Thursday night.  I will go to this meeting which ought to have more attending than usual because the group is eager to learn about the Church from Lynn. 

            Love to you all—Kathy/Mom
           
           

            

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Ben 4/14/14

***Here's Ben's Email. He begins by talking about Zach Kennedy Getting his mission call to the Georgia Atlanta North mission and leaving on June 11th. Same mission, same day. Nate and Zach have been friends their entire life. He also talks about Chase Jenkins getting his call to Buenos Aries North. Ben always said that he wanted Chase to go to the Florida Orlando Mission with him. He also talks about a letter he sent Nate giving him mission advice. He talks about his companion and the Senior Couples he serves with.
He talks about his week and then tells us to have fun at Lake Powell this weekend. He also mentions some Easter videos and links to check out so I will attach the links at the end of his letter. ENJOY***
 
What's up FAM!

Man that is a crazy fun week! Matt you are getting strong lil bro!!!
Take advantage of the time you have man!  That is a miracle to hear
about Zach Kennedy! You guys are going to have so much fun! My dreams
are crushed about Chase Jenkins getting called to the FOM..... But I
hope he has fun with Gines!!!   It sounds like you guys are having fun!!! How long will they
have you in the MTC for? Like until what date? I'm for sure going to
write you.  My letter is very incomplete, but more will come in bits
and pieces I suppose.  Matt, what would
you like for your birthday??? It's coming right up man!!! Just
remember, save your first kiss til I get home. Do not cast your pearls
before swine.... Yet.

Life is good! Now that I know I'll be here til July, it's easier to
just put my head down and go to work. Elder G. (His Companion is Elder G too) is awesome!
He is personable and funny! He is good at contacting people and it was an
answered prayer when I got a black companion! Asset for sure. I love
him and one of the prayers I have had recently is that I am in this
area for him more than anything. I am certain as much as any companion I've had
that we were supposed to be companions. He goes home in five weeks.
We have a lot of fun the obedient way. Finding people to baptize.  I feel like
The Lord put us here so when he looks back on his mission he can have
spiritual memories, memories of miracles  I have learned a lot from him too.
I have been blessed with really good companions.

I'm glad you say that I've changed! One of my biggest worries is that
my mission won't change me as much as it's supposed to. I don't see
the changes because it's hard to remember where I was at before my
mission. Hopefully, you guys aren't too disappointed!  We have a really
awesome Sr couple in the goldenrod ward right now! The Johnson's! They
are awesome. The Senior couples I have served with have truly been huge
blessings! Elder Johnson told me I have a Florida accent yesterday! That
was fun to hear.

This week was just full of miracles. We prayed about who to drop so we
could free up our time to go find people who's hearts are prepared!
It's hard to build up an area to the point where you are teaching
20-25 lessons a week, but it takes more faith to "pause" (drop) them
to go knock doors and bike in the sun. We were definitely blessed.  We
found DeVon a "recording artist" who is interested. He went to
Full-Sail. There are 4 colleges real close. UCF which just has
concourses of people who need the gospel, lots of Babylon, then
Valencia, which is like more local smaller school, then Rollins, which
is like higher class private school, and then Full-Sail, which is all
about the Arts. It costs tons of money to go there and almost no one gets
hired. The tough thing is that even though we live right in the middle, we can baptize
none of these people. In Clermont or Titusville you can baptize any
age, but here 18-30 is off limits. (They have to refer them to the young single adult ward.)
We prepare a lot of people this age for baptism and try to hand them off, but it doesn't always work.
Another miracle this week was Matt S. He's a shy guy we found
through a girl who is about to go on a mission.  Life is so good!!!  
You guys will have a blast at Lake Powell!!! Have fun with Darrin's new fam! 
Best idea for prom would be a mud fight. I don't know other than that!  
That's pretty sweet Matt can scuba! What a beast!

Gospel is so true! Easter will be great. Make sure to check out the
churches YouTube and Facebook Easter stuff!!! I love you tons and
tons!

Love Elder G
 
http://easter.mormon.org/
 #StartingToday ...Every day is a new beginning. You can change your life, because of how one day started, 2000 years ago...watch how you can start today here: http://bit.ly/ytStrtTday — with Linda O'neill.
 
"No goodbye will last forever." #BecauseofHim

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"My other plea at Easter time is that these scenes of Christ’s lonely sacrifice, laced with moments of denial and abandonment and, at least once, outright betrayal, must never be reenacted by us." - Jeffrey R. Holland,http://bit.ly/NoneWereWithHim


 ***Ben's Letter to his mission President***
I think it is a must to teach simple. I remember what one of the
brothers said about how nonmembers wrote the pamphlets.  I think that
shows a lot about how we should teach. We need to use dignified and
refined, but reverent language. This week we taught a part member
family. Stephanie joined the church when she was twelve and fell away
and her nonmember boyfriend Justin agreed to meet with us. An overview
really helped make it more applicable to him. He was grateful when we
pointed out the terms in the back to explain things. We extended a
date after explaining simply what baptism was and how the preparation
would come by the spirit. He accepted and we are very excited to work
with this great family!

Elder Gottfredson

Meriden 4/13/14

April 13, 2014

Hi Family!

Jim’s home!  Thursday, I went to the temple, then went to the airport to get Jim.

Our AZ house did close on Wednesday!  Yay!  We don’t need to worry about that anymore.

The other big news of the week is that I passed the Praxis math test that I studied for.  It was pretty tough.  Part of the problem is there are 50 questions and a two-hour time limit.  I’m a bit slow, so I skipped over the questions that I knew would take me more time and in the last 5 minutes, I guessed on about 8 questions that I didn’t have time to look at. 

Yesterday, Jim and I drove to Cape Girardeau to run in a color run.  It was a lot of fun.  There were a few sisters from our ward who also ran.  Two of the husbands came and watched kids.  Afterwards, we went to Olive Garden to eat.  We were pretty colorful!  Jim and I brought a change of clothes, so I felt a bit cleaner, but still had color on my face and in my hair.   We didn’t get as colorful as when we did the Run or Dye in Tucson last year, but it was still fun. 

Friday was my birthday.  I celebrated by swimming 40 lengths at the pool…that’s 1000 yards.  I don’t think I’ve ever done anything like that before.  I was pretty tired afterwards and left me feeling tired for the rest of the day.  Jim and I went out to eat for dinner.  My dinner was awesome, but unfortunately, Jim’s wasn’t as good.  I got some new tires for my quad and a beautiful picture done by Jon McNaughton of a mountain stream with mountains in the background. 

I continue to train for the triathlon next month.  I’m down to less than 5 weeks now.  Hopefully Jim will be able to get my bike working in the next couple days so I can actually ride my bike, rather than the stationary bike. 

I just received a new call, or actually it’s an assignment, to be the girls’ camp cook.  I laughed when I heard that because I am not crazy about spending a lot of time cooking.  I’ve been to girls’ camp for 1 night in my entire adulthood, so I am very clueless about what is going on.  Apparently, I really don’t have to cook for the entire camp, the wards do their own cooking, but I need to help plan menus, buy food, and give food to the wards while at camp.  I’m guessing there will be a few more things that I will be doing, but hopefully I’ll get it all figured out before camp starts.  The stake camp director is in our ward, so it will be easy to work with her.   My only regret is that I will be gone one of the weeks that Jim is home.  At least he will be home to take care of our dogs and the camp isn’t far away so, he’ll be able to come visit.  Maybe we’ll put the dogs in a kennel for one night so he can come and stay the night.

Have a great week!! 

Meriden/Mom









Kathy 4/14/14

April 14, 2014

Dear Family and Friends—
            It has happened, finally.  Spring is here and it appears that it will actually stick around.  There is a slight green hue to some of the trees on Ocean Parkway, daffodils are out in force, the forsythia is yellow, there’s small green leaves on bushes, the magnolia trees are blooming and there are two “bought from the store” pink azaleas sitting on each of our living room end tables.  Sigh—it is so wonderful!  I took three walks last week to the park and joined ALL the others.  At the park the new ice skating arena has been changed to let roller skaters do their skating thing.
            Let’s see—a week ago Lynn and I were responsible for FHE.  We had a decent sized group and a few new people showed up which always makes our day.  Lynn developed 6 games with balloons, games that could be played as teams and let me tell you—they were a big hit.  It was interesting to see some of the less coordinated play the games better than the “jocks” out of our athletic missionary pool.  I served strawberry shortcake at the end using the Butter Recipe cake mix from Duncan Hines, pureed frozen strawberries, and added small chunks of fresh berries, topped off with whipped cream.  It too, was a big hit.
            The next day, at the temple, I got to be in the baptismal area to help nine young sisters do baptisms for the dead.  Just the thought of getting to be there makes me want to clap my hands and jump up and down.   I restrained myself.  : )    I had one other worker help me so things ran quite smoothly.  Seven of the girls were from Bountiful and were on a dance team, in NY for a dance competition.  They weren’t interested in winning a trophy but just the opportunity to compete to make it to NY was huge for them.  They got to dance on the Koch theatre floor which is the floor the NYC Ballet dances on—very special.  They were very sweet young ladies and it was fun to get to know them and their parents.  Our “going home Wednesday” missionaries were there with Pres. and Sis. Calderwood, but I had little interaction with them.  I was supposed to finish the day as a sealing patron but there were too many men involved at the baptistery (yep, you can tell that spring break was happening in the US) so me and a few other ladies talked for a while (I told them about my super waffle recipe) and then I went home early.
            Lynn stayed because he wanted to go to St. John the Divine, which is a huge Episcopalian church.  They were doing the Passion of St. John by Bach.  It was sung in German.  I just simply wasn’t interested—it sounded too boring.  What, Bach boring---noooo.  Well, I thought it might be.  Lynn came home that night and said he didn’t realize how “heavy” Bach could be.  He struggled to get through it.  He said it was well done but when you don’t recognize any of the music except one piece and you can’t understand the words (the translation was there but they turned down the lights so you couldn’t read), let’s just say, he didn’t enjoy the experience as much as he had hoped he would.  I’m glad I stayed home.  I did go through Central Park and enjoyed all the flowers which were out in force.
            Wednesday was “get ready for Institute” day.  I carefully went through Christofferson’s talk, marking up the pages and did some other things, including one of those walks I talked about.  In the evening, I had the class members share their favorite talk and we discussed some of the interesting parts of them.  Jack gave his presentation too (can’t  remember who he chose) but he did make a big point of saying that he was so impressed with how sincere each person was in presenting their talks, how committed each was to the topic they gave.  I only contributed the fact that I loved Christofferson’s talk on the resurrection and that we would talk about it next week—there was no time for me which was perfectly fine.  Lynn finished off the evening by showing the video which shows the growth of the church by stakes to the year 2007—everyone got a big kick out of that.  Because Jack was there, that also meant missionaries could come and we ended up with four elders. 
            After Institute was over and we were back at the apartment, I noticed I had forgot my jacket and Lynn offered to return (it doesn’t take long) to the church and retrieve it.  He didn’t get back for a long time though and told an interesting story when he did return.  About four short blocks from our place is a gas station.  As Lynn was turning to the side of it he noticed a man on the street with his bicycle.  He rolled down his window and asked if the man was OK.  The reply was “no.”  He had fallen on the slippery wet street onto his knees and he was in a lot of pain.  Lynn put him and his bike in the car and got him back to his apartment.  Lynn got his contact information and asked if he would allow some missionaries to visit him.  (Lynn explained that he was a missionary and told a little about the church).  Saturday afternoon Lynn and two Spanish elders went to Ricardo Rosales place to talk about the church.  The  about 45 year old man from Mexico was polite but not really interested.  However, he did agree to have the Elders return.                        
            Thursday was “get down and dirty” day.  We were having Kent and Kay Bradford for dinner Friday evening.  They are new missionaries for our mission—Kent is Lynn’s first cousin and they live in Pres. Calderwood’s stake.  Because I knew they would be curious about our apartment, I knew I had to do some serious cleaning, which I did.  I also went through my files (because I had a lot of things sitting on top of them which needed filing) and did some reorganizing.  I made a sweet little discovery about my chest of drawers:  when I was dusting them and applying some elbow grease to the job, the moldings at the top of the chest moved.  I was aghast!  When I went to supposedly put it back properly, it moved again.  Curious, I moved the molding and much to my astonishment it pulled out and revealed a narrow drawer with a fuzzy bottom.  It was a hidden jewelry drawer!!  Lynn has an identical chest and we found his hidden drawer.  I went and put my earring there and a few other small items.
            Lynn and I (between Thursday and Friday) had our place spic and span—ready for company.  I fixed a lot of my dinner for the next day on Thursday and then went for a walk.  As a side note—Lynn  got an email from one of our faithful ward members saying she couldn’t do something because she had the flu.  I got out one of our soupsicles (turkey/vegetable flavor) and cut up some bread, bagged some veggies and ice cream sandwiches and Lynn rode his bike to her place.  All she did was come to the door to get them—nothing more.  She came to church Sunday and expressed gratitude.
            Friday, shopping in the morning, got the rest of the dinner under control then we went to Methodist hospital to get two Sisters.  One had a kidney stone and went to the emergency room in the morning.  (The ASL Elders have a car and took her).   Sis. Hamblin was given pain medication and kept there for a while but then she got sent home with us.  Right now she’s doing fine (on pain meds) and doesn’t really know what’s happening with the stone.
            After we got the two sisters tucked in their apartment we then went to the Botanic Gardens to check out the flowers.  The daffodils were spectacular—naturalized all over the place.  The magnolias were looking pretty good too—they still have a little ways to go.  There were other flowering bushes to add to the beauty.  But, the best part was to go to the Japanese Bonsai  greenhouse  and see the very small leaves and tiny little seeds come out on the miniature maple trees—it was simply magic.  The other little trees had leaves coming out too, but the maple---ahhh.
            At six o’clock Kent and Kay came.  We did the obligatory pictures with the view of the Parkway etc.  They did the oohing and aahing over our nice situation and then we ate and talked till ten in the evening, getting all conservative problems solved to a certain degree of satisfaction.  Well, we solved the problem that the Demos were running our country into the ground. 
            The next morning I went shopping with a specific agenda in mind—refreshment food for Tanya Golikova’s baptism.  Got grapes, large bag of tortilla chips, hummus, and a big box of strawberries—thank you COSTCO.  Saturday was a big study day and then I walked in the beautiful Saturday afternoon warmth of the park for quite a while.
            Sunday—I got the grapes all cut, everything was assembled ready to go (Lynn had to show a video presentation after Tanya was baptized).  Then we got a phone call from Lana (Tanya’s mother) asking if we could pick her up to take cupcakes to the church.  Well, Lynn had PEC, (he rode his bike) so I did the driving.   Lana didn’t really have a good way to get those cupcakes transported, but we did the best we could, I drove carefully and dropped them off at the one driveway for the church.  We unloaded the cakes, some people came and helped her get them inside and I went to the streets to find a place to park.
            After the three hour block everyone assembled downstairs in the “rec” room for the baptism.  Boy, Tanya had a lot of people show up to support her.  Elder Joseph (who baptized her mother two years earlier) was there to have a wish of his fulfilled –he wanted to baptize Tanya before he went home.  One of our Institute students (who will soon to go on a mission to SLC) gave a terrific talk on baptism and the Holy Ghost.  Tanya was duly baptized and after Lynn’s video was welcomed “to the church and Primary.”  Then, out came the refreshments—there were no leftovers!  So, our little home teachee is now officially a member of the church—yay!
            The Church is true.  That is a beautiful fact.  Read Elder Christofferson’s talk about the Resurrection—it is amazing.  Hope all of you have a wonderful Easter this Sunday and reflect on the great gifts our Savior has given us.  I am truly grateful to Him for so much.

Love to you all,      Mom/Kathy

            

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Meriden 4/7/14

April 7, 2014

I can’t believe that it’s been 6 years ago today that Mom/Grandma Slocum passed away.  I remember that weekend very well.

Spring is finally arriving to MO!  The daffodils are starting to bloom, dandelions are popping up, the grass is turning green (our lawn needs to be mowed), the leaves are starting to come out, and so are the snakes.  I saw 2 garter snakes in our backyard both Saturday and yesterday.  I hope they stay around. 

Conference was pretty amazing…as usual.  I look forward to listening and reading the talks. 

Last week was pretty much the same as normal.  I subbed 2 days, swam, ran, biked, and studied for this test I will be taking tomorrow.  Wish me luck!  I really want to pass it so I don’t have to take it again.  Fortunately, or maybe it’s unfortunately, I only need to get 25/50 questions correct to pass the test.  I guess Missouri needs math teachers, so the passing score is pretty low.  It’s the lowest of all the subject tests.  My home teachers came over last night and gave me a blessing.  I’m grateful for the priesthood!

We had our first threat of severe weather last week.  Thankfully here, we received rain and a little thunder.  The bigger storms were north of us.

Jim/Dad comes home Thursday!!  In time for my birthday!

Our AZ house, if all goes well, will close on Wednesday.  We didn’t get nearly as much for it as we wanted, but at least it is sold and we won’t have to worry about it anymore.  Now, if we can just find a place here.

Have a great week!

Meriden/Mom





Aaron 4/7/14

April 7, 2014

The Church is so true it’s ridiculous.

Just so you all can be sure, conference is awesome! Who knew you could enjoy sitting in a pew for so long! haha.

Not too much has happened since last Wednesday. Transfer day was just another day since Elder Mosley and I are both here for another 6 weeks. Friday we had an awesome chance to go help move an investigator though. Alisha just broke up with her boyfriend and no longer had enough money to keep paying rent at their house, so she had to get everything packed up and moved out. Her old foster parents are members of the ward, so they came with their truck and trailer, and we moved everything out! It was threatening rain the whole time, but it was a warm 60 degrees and it all held off until we finished. It was so good to get into some jeans and just do some work! We're working to get a lot more service set up with a couple of ward leaders who have connections with a few service organizations in Springfield.

Saturday morning we got up and out to try and get more people to come to conference. Unfortunately, nobody came, and we found out that a couple of our investigators are going back to bad habits, poor communication, and other nonsense. I've been wondering what we can do for all these people who like the church, who like the things it teaches, but don't DO anything about it. It's extraordinarily frustrating. BUT, I also know that if they do decide to accept it and do something about it, it will bless them so much. So we gotta keep trying! 
Saturday Conference sessions were awesome! I know that they're supposed to be every time, but I got a lot more out of this conference than last time. 

I really liked how on Saturday there were a few talks on how we WILL have to endure hardships, and that the Gospel is not something for convenience. God expects us to act and work and do. I liked the warnings given that we will have to defend our faith, and that "the truth will always be opposed." I loved Elder Bednar's talk on how carrying a load will give us traction to move forward! Elder Oaks talk in priesthood session was a doctrinal powerhouse, and Elder Uchdorf’s talk in the same session was very motivating to me. "There is too much at stake not to give our all!" 

I could go on for ages! This morning for personal sturdy I began to review notes, and I "set goals and made plans" of how to implement the direction in my life and in the missionary work here in Springfield. Elder Ballard's talk on Follow Up and missionary work was especially helpful to me and an answer to my prayers.

After the Sunday morning session, we went to and active families home, the Stapletons, for lunch, and ended up getting into a really good missionary discussion on ways to help them in their missionary work. (Mom, that dvd you sent me is doing wonders! I want to know what talk those clips are from!) I ended up challenging each of them to talk to 10 different people about the church next Sunday, and they are excited to do it! They want to make themselves into daily missionaries who make it part of who they are to share the gospel to everyone! Our discussion ended up going long, and our investigators told us they weren't going to make it to the last session, so we just stayed and watched the final session at their house. 

It's been an energizing weekend! I am super glad that I have the chance to start of the transfer with such a spiritual high! I am praying that I will be able to keep with it.

I am praying for each one of you! Thank you for your support! I love and miss you. Keep being awesome!

Love, Elder Aaron Toombs


Kathy 4/7/14

April 7, 2014

Dear Family and Friends—
            Meriden reminded me through her letter that Mom/Grandma died exactly six years ago today.  She died on a Monday, at 12:16 am, just decided to wait for General Conference to be over—hah!  I asked Lynn how long along ago his mother died and it was 27 years ago, two weeks after he became bishop.  This happened in March of 1987.  That event seems like it happened yesterday, but 27 years?  Now that seems like an eternity.
            We’re still struggling with spring here.  It will get warmish for a day, and then go right back to cold and blustery.  I have taken advantage of the warmth when it comes and gone on some walks.
Friday afternoon Lynn and I decided to see how the flora in the Brooklyn Botanic Gardens were doing since we were planning on having the senior missionaries come in two weeks for an outing.  Well, amazing things will have to happen in the next two weeks and I don’t think that’s going to occur so we will postpone the event till May 3rd.  There was one different variety of peach tree (and only one tree) that was completely covered with blossoms at the BBG and places where some daffodils were showing their sunny faces, but the vast majority of the “dills” were still waiting to open.  It was a cold, rainy, windy day—I didn’t blame them for still snoozing.  The nice part about our experience was going to the greenhouses and seeing so many plants with their indoor spring display of flowers—made up for the rest of the gardens.
            On my walk in Prospect Park mini daffodils just 4-5 inches high were blooming where they had been naturalized.
            Well, this past Wednesday night we had Institute and talked about adversity.  I had a lot of information to share and the rest of the class contributed quite a bit.  Our Jewish investigator (Jack) came and at one point really opened up and had a lot to say.  He got excited when Lynn mentioned he had a patent on the touch tone phone from Bell Labs because he said as a kid he loved all things telephone and AT&T.  He felt that it was some kind of “sign” that this Institute teacher from the Mormon Church worked for Bell and here he was learning about the religion.  So, therefore, there must be some to this religion, right?  How could this coincidence be?  Such logic gives me the creeps.  He did come to church for both sessions of Sunday conference and really enjoyed it.   If he joins the church it better be because he has a testimony of the restoration, not because of magic.  Although we spent a lot of time talking about how adversity could cause us to turn to God and chose His path, at the end we correctly pointed out how just plain keeping the commandments has a positive effect to keeping us close to God—needed to end the class on a high note.
            Thursday was catch up and relax a lot day.   It’s a day that I spent doing a lot of writing in my journal and doing more scripture study.   Lynn went on a bike ride that included a trip across the George Washington Bridge.  It has two levels and eight lanes on each level, plus room for walkers and bikers.  It goes from the north end of Manhattan to New Jersey.  I had some thawed out turkey and turned it into soup plus that was the day I walked to Prospect Park.
            Friday afternoon we went to the BBG and then went to a place called Sophie’s in downtown Brooklyn.  Lynn had already bought a meal there doing the Groupon thing.  It has Cuban cuisine but with the exception of the rice, the food could have been from CafĂ© Rio, well, sort of.
            Then Saturday morning came—no rest here.  I went shopping to two different stores early.  Then Lynn and I went to Lana and Tanya Golikova’s apartment to pick them and their stuff up to take to Good Will.  We filled the back of the car with toys, clothes etc. and then off we went back to downtown Brooklyn where we had just been the night before.  Problem with DT Brooklyn is the driving, the one-way streets, the parking—yuck.  We finally found Good Will and a sign on the front said to go to the side of the store to drop things off.  Groan.  More drive, drive, drive on the one way streets going backwards to go forwards and then had to double park on the streets.  Lana took the things to the entry and came back with most of it.  Although someone had told her on the phone that Good Will would take toys, this Good Will would not take the toys!  Groan again.  Ah well.  We then drove to the farmer’s market at Grand Army plaza (the market is open every Saturday and right on the edge of Prospect Park) so Lana could give clothes to some people that repurpose them.  That worked out just fine. 
            We took the two of them home and then went to the church so Lynn could set up the feed for Conference for the Spanish.   They were using the chapel, the French Creole was in the RS room and the English was downstairs.  We didn’t leave till we made sure everyone was getting the proper feed and then hurried home.
            My assignment to our Institute class was to take notes on Conference talks and then come prepared this Wednesday to tell about what our favorite talk was.  Even Jack said he would do the assignment.  I told Lynn to take notes for me the first hour because I wanted to have a traditional Conference breakfast which normally means waffles, but instead I made from scratch pancakes.  Yum!  There were so many talks that morning that were outstanding, but Elder Holland’s “call to arms” so to speak, was one of my favorites.  So, there was nothing relaxing about this Conference what with all the mad writing I was doing for 8 hours. 
            Lynn went early to Priesthood meeting.  The Elders Quorum always puts on dinner for the guys an hour earlier.  Lynn went to Juden’s place to pick him up to take him.  No one answered the door.  I told Lynn I didn’t think Judens would really go, but when I heard the news that he actually didn’t I was sad.   I did not watch Priesthood meeting, but did my traditional DVD movie that had some religious theme.  I watched “The Other Side of Heaven” instead.  Lynn came home and said that Oaks gave a great talk—that it would end up being a classic.  He said there were two others that were great too.  I will look forward to seeing them on the computer.
            I spent Sunday morning getting a tuna-macaroni salad ready to go and in the frig, and then watched Conference.  We then went to church to meet up with the people who were there to watch Conference at the church and have a meal with them between sessions.  The Spanish Ward makes most of the food but Midwood I also contributes.  It was great to eat and talk with people from both wards—always an enjoyable experience.  We came home and finished Conference in our apartment.  I’ve decided that I liked Elder Christofferson’s talk about as much as anybody’s and will use that for my contribution on Wednesday night.
            Lynn and I finished off the evening by talking to Ken, Margie and family catching up on all their news.  We then talked to Sean and Julianne’s family.  The twins played their piano recital pieces on the electronic keyboard that was brought into the office.  We were so pleased with their songs.  Kyle then did two pieces that he has learned.  Kyle is actually teaching the twins piano.  Julianne pays him.  : )  We were very happy to learn that Bryson is doing really well in school and is now learning subtraction.  Ken was given a new title at work:  Senior Consultant—nice to put on your cards etc.  Margie is taking work off this week to be with the boys—it’s spring break in Lehi.
            What a magnificent Conference we had Saturday and Sunday.  One of the things Jack loves about our church is that it is not wishy-washy concerning doctrine and moral standards.  In his investigations with many different churches (remember, he is an open-minded Jew) ours is the only one that takes such a firm stand on what we believe to be right.  Well, yes, Jack.  That’s because ours is a church founded on revelation from God and is God’s church.  Period.  I am very grateful for that testimony and grateful to be here in NY to support the dear members here.


Love to you all—Kathy/Mom

Ben 4/7/14

*** Here is Ben's letter. He writes to us about a picture we sent to him. We went to General Conference on Saturday afternoon  in the Conference Center and the camera caught our family during the rest hymn, The words on the screen were, "Thus onto Eternal perfection, the honest and faithful will go". Too funny. Nate has been growing a beard out while he still can. Ben and Nate are so competitive that they argue about who's beard is better. Too funny. We also picked up two young men who were hitchhiking to Zion National Park. They rode on our car with us for the last 3 hours of our drive home. They listened to 2 full hours of General Conference with us. ;-)  I was admittedly apprehensive, but it ended up being a great thing. (Nate's idea.) He talks about his favorite talks from General Conference. He talks about us getting our screenings because Gary had a mark removed from his face. All is good, we just feel old. I included a letter to his mission President at the end. ENJOY!***
 
Fam!

Thus on to eternal perfection, the honest and faithful will go! Hahaha that picture of you is so awesome!!!!! To be honest I didn't see you then, though I was paying attention and looking!!! I thought I saw Nate on a side profile at a different time, but clearly not, the beard is improving, but you still have a lot of beard to grow young padawon.  Wait til I send you pictures and you think I'm Zac Brown in the flesh. 

Man the conference was great!  Always is.  It went by way too fast!!! My favorite session this time was priesthood!!! You guys are so blessed to have been there.  I had no idea Mom and Matt had never been there!!! We'll have to go again as a fam.  That is such a great story about the hitchhikers! Look at my missionary fam!!!  I bet that had a big impact on them!  You are a great example to me!!!  I wish we could pick up hitchhikers...  Some of my favorite talks were all three of the first presidency's in reverse order Uchtdorf,  Eyering,  Monson. Also Elder Bednar's about the yoke and the load in the truck, it's actually a great way to explain covenants. 

This week the funniest/funnest thing that happened was hands down the mud fight!!! Usually for district p day people plan on playing games or going bowling...... I was just like no we need to do something fun.  We went on this mud hike that made you feel like you were in the amazon. Gators and snakes could have come from anywhere. At first everyone was a little apprehensive, but as we got going we turned it into a really fun mud war including mud wrestling!!! Wait til you see pictures!  It kind of reminded me of the big water fight me and Ben Smith went to in Bunkerville!!! It was fun to have no mercy on sister missionaries and pelt them with mud. (Don't worry mom they wanted to be involved).  It's a big blessing because my whole district gets to stay together this next transfer. It will give us a little stability and continuity. Upward and Onward!!!
Nate  I think you're right on the money with your plans!!!  I have just a introduction of mission advice I'll try to get to ya.  In less than a month I can give you more via Skype!!! (Our Mother's Day Skype is coming!!) Then it's your time big man!!! Even more rewarding than baptisms is missionaries.  In all my wards I've loved working with priest who will soon serve missions. Last night we attended one with a guy named Luis who helps us a ton! He is going to Denver South Mission!!! I hope he is still in the MTC when you get there! I wish I could be there with you, my prayers and letters will have to do. You are going to do great things!  Make sure Mom and Dad get there medical screenings.  Old fogies...  Matt things are going to pick up big time for you.  I keep looking at the pictures of you I've been sent recently! You're getting big man!!! Tall and ready for war! There's a lot of good things coming your way!!!  I'm glad to hear you enjoyed conference!

I can't believe Maddie and Tori and Austin are getting married. I think it's great for them, for me however, I would have been very dumb to try and do something like that without the experience of a mission. I think even with the experience of a mission, I'll still be too dumb to try anything like that!  I'm forever living in that LeBron James/Warrior room and messin around with my bros!!!

Ya dad, I'd like to have Todd Smith give those liberal women who want the priesthood a quote or two!  Just remember when you give hitchhikers a ride mom, their "Mama tried" too (;  I thought of you a ton throughout the conference!!!  Can't for Mothers day (: Keep going strong fam!

Life is such a blessing! We can't wait to get back to work!!! I love you guys tons!!! I'll try to send out a letter today!!!

***Ben's Letter to his mission President (He must have asked what Ben's favorite talk was from Conference.)
 
Can I only pick one?  Please don't reprimand me if I pick two.

1. President Uchtdorf's talk in the Priesthood session.  "DON'T SLEEP THROUGH THE RESTORATION!"   The Restoration is not complete, it is only set in motion!  That talk will do wonders to reset our vision and understand our role in the work.  Faith will bring us miracles! Miracles don't stop after the doctrine and covenants are over!  I believe the Lord is just as willing to give the Waterford, Goldenrod, and University Park wards miracles as he was to give Joseph Smith and Heber C Kimball miracles.  We not only teach about the restoration of the gospel, but need to better exemplify it.

2. Elder Bednar's talk on covenants.  In the famous scripture found in the last verses of Mathew 11, we find a scripture we very often associate with the peace and rest that accompanies the gospel.  Jesus says "Come unto me all ye that labor and are heavy laden" and then he asks us to what? Take his 'yoke' upon us?  Yokes require work and responsibility! I thought I was coming to you to receive rest?  If everyone understood that making and keeping covenants is a blessing and that this responsibility helps us find peace, more people would be baptized and go to the temple, and members and missionaries would be more diligent in sharing the gospel and keeping our covenants. We went to a dinner appointment right after conference with a man married to a temple worker who is not a member.  We felt prompted to share this principle with him, his wife, and his returned missionary son.  We invited him to set a date for baptism.  He decided not to, but the spirit bore witness to all our hearts the importance of covenants.
We are grateful to have most of the district together for the next transfer.  Transfers truly are inspired!  We have big plans and we are excited to get to work.