Monday, July 15, 2013

Kathy 7/15/13

July 15, 2013

Dear Family and Friends—
            How’s everyone this nice day which will end up being about 96 degrees with high humidity.  Thank you air conditioning!  We’ve had overcast skies with rain of various natures this past week so it was nice to see blue sky for a change this morning.
            Been a far more boring week this week but nice to get the essentials done.
            Let’s see, a week ago I did the last letter, erased it and started again.  Still haven’t recovered emotionally from that mistake.  : )   But, the next day was completely different, being temple service day.  Lynn was the officiator and I was the follower first thing in the morning.  I knew what I was doing and there was a good sized group there.  So peaceful!  At lunch got to get to know Elder Jorgenson much better.  He and his wife are doing MLS in a ward way out on the east side of Long Island.  Financially and time wise it is a big sacrifice for them to do service in the temple so they only come twice a month.  That day I got to be in the Celestial Room just as a worker there to make sure everything went ok and to open the door when the patrons leave.  It is so quiet and peaceful; all troubles seem to melt away in the peace.  Then I went to initiatory and because there were a lot of ladies that showed up and workers were being called to the baptistery because it was being overrun with scouts that would end up at Jamboree in W. Virginia, I needed to stay longer than I was scheduled for.  It was ok though as this was a chance to get to be with old regulars and some people that came to do temple work as part of their vacation to NY.  Working with people whose hearts are in the right place is such a pleasure.
            Wednesday was strictly “get ready for Institute” day.  The more I went over the material the more ideas and concepts popped into my head.  I believe it went quite well though sometimes having too much material was a problem.  Only three showed up, one more came 45 minutes later, and one more came 50 minutes later.  All the work was worth it though, even for a small group because the teacher is always the winner with what she gains from all the preparation.
            The next day was finances and beginning prep for this Wednesday’s Institute.  I need to get ahead of the game there since my MO is now to hand out a study sheet to go along with the talk we will discuss.  Also, and I’m not kidding, I believe I made 25 trips up and down the elevator to do a lot of laundry.  I felt like a yo-yo.  One of the washers wasn’t working and there was more than just me competing for the use of the other three machines.  I was worn out by the end of the day and spent it finishing up the last part of “Return of the King” (Lord of the Rings series). 
            Friday went shopping using my new shopping cart and it was every bit as handy as I hoped it would be.  Instead of making multiple trips up and down from the garage to get the groceries into the apartment everything fit in the cart for one trip.  Hallelujah! 
            In the afternoon it started to rain, well it’s been raining in the afternoons just about all week.  This rain was more of a problem because we were going to the Soletas to celebrate their youngest daughter’s birthday.  The house is too small for the party to be inside, there were somewhere about 30 people at the party, so we ate outside under the porch covering next to the house.  Hummm, stayed mostly dry.  But, a good time was had by all and a lot of food was had by all, when the Soletas throw a big party they fix a lot of food!!!  (There were five women to do the cooking).
            Oh, forgot to mention that on Thursday Doug Lee went by some service van to a hospital at the extreme northern end of Manhattan that is quite the distance.  He had same day hernia surgery.  We had every intention of visiting him that night and taking some food over and warming it up for him.  But, are you ready for this?  His landlady refused to allow anyone to see him.  She refused to allow ANY ONE to bring food to him.  No one could come inside that building.  And because she’s a particular kind of Muslim that hates whites, she’s told Lee (who’s the only white man in this half-way house) that he’s got to find a new place to live by September 1st!  I was stunned, completely stunned.  Also, there is no air conditioning in the house, despite the fact that this lady is making a fortune off these men, and if Lee wanted a fan he’d have to pay extra for the electricity. 
            So, when he called Lynn yesterday(Sunday)  early in the morning and asked him to take him back to his hospital in upper Manhattan because he was having problems recovering from the surgery I was glad that he had problem.  At least he could be admitted, be in air conditioning, get food to eat and be taken care of.  When I described to some people at church his situation and the landlady woman, I was asked “what kind of woman is this?”   My answer could only be “Wicked”!
            Saturday I did a lot of prep for next week’s institute lesson plus other things which kept me working at a desk all day.  In the late afternoon Lynn suggested that we go for a walk and I was so all in favor.  We drove to Prospect Park and parked the car along the street and walked in the light rain (no umbrellas) but it was not a problem.  The humidity was a problem.  We went some places I haven’t been to and at the end stopped at the carousel.  Lynn went to the ticket booth and started to talk to the ticket lady like they were old friends.  Turns out that they were!  She knew all about the fact that Lynn was waiting to ride the carousel when his wife was there, and now I was finally there.  There weren’t a lot of takers for rides that day so we had the pick of the horses to ride on.  The colors on the Prospect Park carousel are much more subdued than the one in Central Park and that’s because they were restored to as much of the original paint colors as they could find.  The man who did a lot of the restoring of this carousel is from Italy and he was the operator that day.  What a delightful man.  What a treasure he has restored.  What an incredible job was done on this carousel right down to the restored organ with its accompanying instruments.  Please go and type in “Prospect Park carousel” in the Google search bar.  It will tell the story of this carousel.
            Yesterday was church as usual except for the fact that Lynn taught the S.S. lesson—did a nice job.  He sure put in the time to prepare for it.   Our bishop made an announcement that there was going to be a special missionary Sunday in two weeks so bring friends and neighbors for music and a simple explanation of the church.  After church Lynn went to PEC and found out that Lynn and I were being asked to talk that day.  That’s fine, but we assumed the missionaries had the meeting all planned out and they didn’t tell us about any talks.  We talked to the Zone leader today and he only thought the missionaries were responsible to do some music.  Well, will be interesting to see what ends up happening.
            In the afternoon we went to visit and have dinner with the Williams family.  They are from Jamaica and are stalwarts in this ward.  Turns out that Carol and Rainford Williams own a townhome, use two floors and rent out the top floor.  It was, hands down and far away the best kept residence that we have come across in this ward.  They were so gracious and fixed a delicious meal.  Had just a wonderful time. 
            That’s the news.  I’m so grateful for the opportunity to serve this mission.  Grateful for the chance to teach Institute because I learn so much.  I’m grateful for the gospel and its truthfulness.  When I observe the people that come to the temple I am filled with awe for them because they are committed covenant keepers, they choose the gospel in their lives, they choose to keep all the commandments to the best of their ability, not perfectly, but to the best of their ability and that are remarkable.  I see too much of the opposite side of this.  I love the Lord and I am grateful for the
Atonement.  I sure love my family and others that I know and hold dear.  Have a great week everyone; we should, we’re planning on going to Palmyra this Thursday morning!

Love, Kathy/Mom

            

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