Sunday, February 17, 2013

Kathy's Letter 2/17/13


February 17, 2013

Dear Family—
            Typing on my new computer.  This will be the final one since I can’t return this.  It’s an HP with Blu-ray.  Also, Lynn installed a new Word software that is more compatible to receiving some kind of documents (like the kind my mission president sends me) that the other version didn’t have.  So, I’ve been frustrated at all the changes that I can’t stand.  I want the old style back.  Sigh.  Will just have to get used to it.  We haven’t returned the other HP to COSTCO yet so now we are a three computer family with two people.  : )
The biggest news is that we are moving to a different apartment on the same floor.  So we’re moving to 5A and 5H (our current place) will be given to the younger missionaries.   5A has another bedroom, the kitchen is about twice as big, there’s another bathroom and there is a small balcony—all big pluses.  The downside is that the floors are a medium brown and old (5H has new light bamboo floors).   The apartment does face Ocean Parkway and we discovered that there is traffic noise.  The 5A was left a filthy, dirty, greasy, moldy mess in the kitchen and bathrooms and we have spent 3 days cleaning and cleaning.  Every square inch of the kitchen cabinets were rubbed hard with Comet and other cleansers.  They are laminate, so they could take the scrubbing.  All the appliances needed serious attention but with hard work, they look like new.  The 5A kitchen really isn’t that old, it just was never cleaned.   I have thought long and hard about making the move, but just the thought of having the extra room so we could have family come visit was too tempting.  
So, now that we have the room, we’d love to have you come and visit us in New York!
The missionaries are going to help us move in tomorrow.
Tuesday the temple reopened and Lynn and I went back to our responsibilities there.  Unfortunately the lady who is my trainer injured herself and was not able to be there.  They were shy 3 workers and so I was left to my own to figure out what to do.  It became a problem at one point when I couldn’t understand what my schedule was telling me to do, no else could figure it out, they guessed, and when I tried to find someone that could help me, there was no one to be found.  I finally got to where I was supposed to be (initiatory) and from then on, everything went ok.  I did get two hours to do memorizing while sitting in the elegant hall off the Celestial room and had a quiet chat with a lady with a heavy Spanish accent who was a worker there.  So many faithful people work at that temple at great sacrifice to themselves.  One lady comes in three days a week but lives 100 miles away and takes a bus to get to the temple!!!  Which means she also takes the bus home……..
Starting this week we will have a lot of changes with the young missionaries.   It will be very hard to let some of them go, they become a part of you.  We had the Spanish missionaries to our place for breakfast this past Wednesday.  Had the same menu as I did the week before but this time everything went a lot better because I had already practiced.  The Spanish speaking missionaries are very impressive.  Two of the elders are the zone leaders, the other two, the district leaders and then there are two sisters.  The difference in deportment and talk was much more mature—these missionaries insisted on cleaning up and discussed mission issues like adults.  Not all missionaries are created equal. 
Lynn and I went to the Midwood 2 ward (Spanish speaking) Saturday night for that ward’s Valentines “party”.   They were trying to raise money for their scouting program so they had a small yard sale inside the church.  They had a professional type photographer taking pictures.  And they had a nice dinner and small program.  Everything cost money.  But, that was the idea.  I think they did pretty well financially.  Lynn and I did our share to help the cause.
Lynn also went to Flushing Meadows area via the train in the morning.  There was a Chinese New Year parade happening there (it’s the year of the snake) and he wanted to be part of that experience.  I had way too much to do and felt like I couldn’t make it.  It was nice to stay home.  Two of the missionaries came by and helped move a few things that we could live without.  (We would have moved into our apartment on Friday but we didn’t get the electricity on when we had hoped—finally got it turned on yesterday.)  Then more missionaries, first the sisters, then some elders, came by just to chat, hang-out, express some frustrations and they needed a kind, sympathetic, listening ear.  One of the sisters wasn’t feeling well so I got her some medicine which did the trick.  We may be the member support missionaries, but much more than that we are the parents to our “kids.”  One thing they did say, and I’m not surprised, is that the two Midwood wards are THE most difficult areas in the entire mission.  It’s super hard to get baptisms here and after people get baptized, they go inactive within a month.  Our job is to help those newly baptized people but since we’ve been here there have been no baptisms.  A few people are starting to come back and that’s the good news.
But, those that do come, that are active, are so wonderful.  They are lacking experience in the church and there are, as I mentioned before, way too many single adults. There is exactly one family that has a father, mother and children of either Primary or YM/YW age.  There are a number of married couples with grown children and two married couples with one baby each.   And yet, the members come, and they are devoted and they are sweet to get to know.
Lynn gave the lesson in Sunday School lesson today, on the 4th article of faith and he did his usual magnificent job of teaching.  Being a teacher for a profession prepared him well for today’s class.  : )
On Valentine’s Day, I got a beautiful card and bouquet of flowers from Lynn.  I told him I wanted to try a real good Jewish deli for dinner, so we went to one street noted for just that, found a very nice place and found out that the prices matched the nice place.  We bought the most expensive sandwiches we’ve ever bought; however, the pastrami was excellent.  We got two pickles with that, the completely sour, and the half sour.  Both were the best pickles ever!  The young men behind the deli counter all wore their little caps and had their Brooklyn accents. 
The gospel is true and I am grateful for that knowledge.  Grateful to Jesus Christ and his atonement.  Grateful for the Book of Mormon—I love reading and studying it every day.  And I’m grateful for uncounted blessings from God.  After Lynn and I went to visit his home teaching companion in his little hovel of a place, he is a dear man with health problems, we came away really realizing how unbelievably blessed we are.  It’s wonderful to serve the people here and get to know a whole different culture. 
Enjoy your week.       Love, Kathy/Mom/Grandma








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