Monday, March 3, 2014

Kathy 3/3/14

March 3, 2014

Dear Family and Friends—
            How’s everyone this cool, cloudy day?  We got a ½” of snow overnight and it’s in the twenties this morning.  This last week the temperatures have been really cold clear up till the weekend when they finally got to 60 one day.  It’s back to cold now.  This snow won’t be sticking around for very long.     
            I have been quite sick with allergic reactions in the back of my throat and my ears are itchy/burny.  I got this way this past Saturday, but I’ve really been sick ever since the apartment management turned on the heat in October.  What really bothers me is all the allergic reactions I’ve been getting which has been constant—my throat swells and itches, my ears are the same.  It’s weird and annoying.  I had Lynn and two Elders give me a blessing this morning and I’m waiting for a ward member to call back so she can give me a name of a doctor that can hopefully help me out.
            Well—let’s see.  A week ago Lynn and I were responsible for FHE.  Lynn made up a Jeopardy Game on his computer and some sensible rules so that the missionaries wouldn’t be the only ones to answer the questions.  The questions all had to do with identifying the pictures of members of our ward.  Whoever was up at the front to “answer” the question had to give the first and second name of the ward member they saw.  If they couldn’t answer, then the team could help them out.  It was an eye opening experience to see how few people the ward members knew by name.  I had grapes, clementine tangerines, bricks of cream cheese with mild and medium jalapeno jelly and one just a plain brick for those that didn’t like the heat and I had a LOT of Ritz crackers.  It went over really well—nothing was left.  We did have a pretty good turn out that night so I was quite pleased.
            Sad part of Monday—got notification from Denny Martin that Gayle (a very good friend of mine) died on Monday afternoon.  She had brain cancer—from diagnosis to death was just six months.  It’s just going to be so hard to return to Provo and not be able to return to where I left off with her.  Either she has been my visiting teacher, or I’ve been hers for what seems like forever.
            Tuesday was temple day.  The missionaries that are going home this transfer (this Wednesday) were there with Pres. and Sis. Calderwood.  I was in the session with them, but Lynn was not.  Got to see the new movie again and reconfirmed that I still love it.  : )   
            On Wednesday I had a lot of laundry to do and Institute to prepare for.  Actually I was getting a lesson ready for the next week so that I could make copies of the article and some questions to go with that night.  As it turned out, the machine was not cooperating and I only got a few copies made.  We had nine come to class and had a pretty good discussion on the first two pages of Sr. Burton’s talk on covenants that she gave in the RS meeting.  I had assigned the entire class one of the pages to read and study and created some questions for them to think about and then they became the teachers.  Those that I normally can count on did a great job, and the others, well, we had enough prepared that the class went well anyway.  I really want the class to be responsible for learning the material and this is a good way to do it.
            Thursday was a big day which started fairly early.  We were on our way to the UN for a very special meeting where the church arm of charity (LDS Charities) was being recognized by the UN as an NGO.  Lynn and I took a train to Rockefeller Center then tried to get a bus to take us to the UN building.  The bus was taking too long so we just walked the very, very cold six long blocks.  We got there at 10:15 am and saw with dismay that there was a very long line which we joined.  It didn’t take long before a few of our ward members joined us and we had a nice chat with them—also saw a lot of other people that we knew.  The hang-up was the very tight security in the small building that we went to first—I was dismayed that there were only two lines of security (when four more were available) and also interested in knowing that my knee set off the alarm. 
            We got to the conference room about 11:05 so we were not there for the opening salvo.  But, there were still a few empty desks that we could sit at.  Each desk had a mike, an ear piece, volume controls and a way to get the dialogue in different languages—a really slick set-up.  We also got a very comfortable seat to sit in.  When we arrived they were showing a video about the church and LDS Charities—what it is and what it does.  Then we were introduced to four people who made up a panel of experts (all LDS) to explain about the charity and the work that it does.  At the end of the presentation they allowed questions to be addressed.  Now the vast majority of the people there were LDS but it was obvious from the questions that non-members were there also.  Although all the questions were respectful, there was no mistaking the feeling of anti-Mormonism that existed in many of the questions.  We were there for one and half hours in the meeting (which was called “Discovering Mormonism and Its Role in Humanitarian Assistance”), but we also stuck around for quite a while taking pictures and talking to friends.  Later, we went through some halls and a couple of rooms just looking around.  There was a lot of art work in the hallways.  We wanted to join a tour group but we were supposed to have booked that via the Internet. 
            After that, we walked to a train station that was bound for Houston Street (pronounced “house-ton”) so we could go to the Katz deli, which is a very famous Jewish deli that has been there since the late 1800’s.  This deli was located in a not-so-very great part of lower Manhattan and the way of ordering food was either sit at a table and wait for a waitress, or go to the very long counter  with so many signs up there you couldn’t believe it.  After a few miss-steps we figured out what was going on and ordered a pastrami Reuben sandwich and I got an egg cream (think chocolate drink with seltzer and milk).  I loved my sandwich, but Lynn wished he had gotten corned beef instead.  The egg cream was divine.  After eating and pictures we made our way to the train and went home. 
            The next day was shopping for me, but in the afternoon we went to AJ Johnson’s apartment.  He had invited all the missionaries in our area to his place for lunch/dinner.  The missionaries actually did most of the food preparation.  We had an eclectic menu—pan fried chicken legs, boiled eggs, a cheese plate with crackers, homemade lemonade of which there was not nearly enough, two kinds of pasta with not so great sauce, a lettuce salad with small tomatoes and mini-carrots thrown in, a relish tray with carrot and celery sticks and a small piece of pound cake topped with strawberry ice cream.  The place made me and the other sister missionaries uncomfortable because good housekeeping was not on the menu.  But, we did thoroughly enjoy the food and most especially, the company.  Some of us got to sit at the table; the others did the best they could by standing up.  The occasion for this meal was that AJ was going to move to Scottsdale, AZ, so his mother could have a new job with the hotel company she was working for.  AJ is nineteen but is autistic so he’ll have to go with her.  He thinks he can get more work and try to stay in NY because he doesn’t want to leave, but I think he’ll have a problem trying to survive on his own.  He’s still trying to decide if he wants to be baptized.
            It was toward the end of the lunch that I knew I was in trouble.  We had to be polite and stay as long as possible, but I could feel my throat and ears swelling up really bad.  We got back to the apartment; I took Benadryl and went to bed.  I have been feeling really lousy ever since.  Yesterday Lynn gave the Sunday School lesson on Abraham and Isaac, and he did a magnificent job which included a video of Abraham taking Isaac to Mt. Moriah to be sacrificed and I wanted to stay for that, but right after I told him I needed to go back home.  I took more medication and went to bed for several hours, had dinner and then watched Sis. Burton speak at the CES fireside.  We finished off the evening by talking to Ken and Sean’s families.
            Oh, you’ll be interested in knowing that we had a young lady (probably mid-twenties) come to our ward yesterday from another ward in the stake.  She was dressed in a fancy white dress that looked like a tent with ruffles.  It was obvious she wasn’t completely there.  She got up and bore her testimony and then talked about how much she loved her step-brother and because she couldn’t marry the step-brother at the temple, (he had died) she proceeded to say her marriage vows to him at the pulpit, finishing it off with a song.  Just a little color in good old Brooklyn.
            Despite not feeling all that great after Friday afternoon, this really has been an enjoyable week.  What a privilege to be here in NY and have these experiences and get to know the people that we do.  The Church is true and Jesus Christ is our Savior and Redeemer.  Love the Book of Mormon!  Studying that book is a joy. 
              Hope you have a wonderful week—Love, Kathy/Mom


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