Thursday, January 2, 2014

Kathy 12/23/13

December 23, 2013

Dear Family and Friends—
            Happy birthday (208) Joseph Smith!  And Happy Birthday Uncle Jack.  Julie and Lily had birthday’s a short while ago too.   And, AND, Happy Birthday this Wednesday to sweet Bryson who will be 7 years old—is that possible, Bryson?  While Maureen Goering wrote that they had an ice storm then a lot of snow on top of that, in Iowa, we have been sporting record breaking warmth in Brooklyn.  When I went shopping this morning it was pouring rain.  Can’t complain too much, we need the water.  And, went it counted, we have gotten several small snow storms to make it look like Christmas.
            It has been such a busy, busy week, so busy that I haven’t taken time to write in my journal—just got the essentials done, and was counting on writing this letter to be my journal.
            Last Monday night we were responsible for FHE.  Lynn had a Christmas power point presentation that we showed after playing three short games which involved figuring out Christmas hymns by unscrambling letters or acting out the title of the song.  By the time we were finished we had sung the 1st verse of every Christmas song in the hymn book.  Finished off the evening with cookies and hot chocolate.
            Tuesday was temple day.  I saw some young missionaries in the temple and asked where they were from.  Morristown, N.J.  I asked if Elder Marchant was there.  Yes, he was in the baptistery.  I then started my search for him and between responsibilities, finally found him.  Big hug!  He looked great.  We sat down and chatted with other missionaries from his mission, comparing mission notes about his experiences and ours.  I was shocked to find out that his mission won’t be getting the mini iPads till June.  Our missionaries are full into them now.  Later, Lynn was with me while we briefly said a “hello” to him in the celestial room.  I hope we can see him in the temple again sometime, before we go home.

Tuesday 24
            Couldn’t finish this letter yesterday because Lynn wanted me to make some more pulla bread for some of our ward members.  So doing that, plus a trip to the bank, a visit to an inactive member, then home for home evening filled up my day.
            OK—so, back to Tuesday.  When we got out of the temple it was snowing so beautifully.  We looked at a few restaurants to see where we wanted to eat and settled on “The Smith.”  The service was great, the food was incredible, and it was a short distance to the temple and Avery Fisher Hall.
            At A.F. Hall we found our seats toward the back but were very fortunate to sit in front of two delightful people who were happy to talk to us.  They were reformed Jews and had a lot to say about a lot of different things.  What we wondered is why they were here for a performance of Handel’s Messiah?  Answer—they loved all good music and were opened minded.  So, Lynn and I watched and listened to the most stunning performance of Handel’s Messiah that you can imagine.  They had a small version of the New York Philharmonic, four extremely good soloists, and a college choir (Westminster Symphonic Choir) that has performed the Messiah in this venue for many years.  There was also a harpsichord and small organ, a timpanist, and two trumpets to augment the strings.  It’s just impossible to explain how good they all were—at the end they received a very long standing ovation.  Truly we were greatly privileged to listen to this performance.
            The next day (after waking up very late because we got to bed late), I spent the day making four large quiches, pulla bread, and set up for company coming in the morning.  That was my day.  So glad there was no Institute.
            So, Thursday morning, at 9:30 we had 13 Elders and Sisters for breakfast.  We should have had five more, two were very sick, the other three had to take a “going home” Elder to the mission office.  I baked bacon and sausage in the oven, made two gallons of yummy hot chocolate, had apple slices, grapes and OJ for fruit and celebrated my traditional Christmas brunch with my kids.  It was so wonderful because they are grateful for any small or large thing you do for them.  We finished the morning off with a message and then sent them on their way.
            Next, I accidently wasn’t looking at my watch correctly and went to my hair appointment early, so after I got that figured out, I went to a restaurant, sat down and continued my study/reading of the Ensign and Conference issue.  Got a lot of that done on the train too.  I met my new hairdresser, Sophia, who took Martha’s place (she went to Texas).  Sophia was eager to please and she gave a great cut—I was much relieved after having a lot of fear.
            I had had a discussion with Lynn earlier about going into the city on Friday to see lights and shop, but after I realized I had time to kill I called him and told him to meet up with me (after my hair cut) to go to Manhattan so we could go to the Spanish Ward’s Christmas concert the next day.  So, that is exactly what we did.  I took him where Nancy and I had gone down on Madison Ave.  Lynn was enchanted with the windows that were made up so beautifully.  We went to Bloomingdales and got some things there.  Also oohed and ahhed over Macy’s inside and outside; got some things there too.  We also went to the Empire State Building.   It was just a great afternoon and evening—loved being together in the big city, because especially in the city, the lights blink a bright red and green as the shoppers rush home with their treasures.  : )
            Next day, woke up late, got plates of goodies made up and went and visited a lot of people, most of who do not come to church.  Actually, we’ve been visiting a lot of people off and on for over a week.  Then in the evening we went to the Spanish Ward’s Christmas concert.  The members of the ward did Christmas narration and the missionaries did the music.  There was such great talent there; I’m so impressed with our young people.  There were some missionaries brought in from outside our two ward area and that helped a lot.  Then, afterwards we mingled with the Spanish ward, getting to know their new bishopric and having refreshments, which we helped out with by bringing cookies.
            The next day, I went shopping, did finances, did laundry and ironing and felt like I had caught up with things demanding my attention. 
            Sunday we had a smaller than usual group in church because so many people were out of town.  In Provo, the ward numbers greatly increase as family comes to visit the ward, here, a lot of people leave.  But, it was a very nice Christmas service.  Lynn and I went to Primary next to show a slide presentation but stayed for all of opening exercises.  It was great to be back with the little ones again and listen to all their sweet answers to what they want for Christmas.  “I want my mom to get better” and “I want to be with my family”.   We are talking, with very few exceptions, very poor children here. 
            After Lynn fixed a delicious steak dinner for me that night (doing inside on our Lodge grill set off the smoke alarm!) we went to visit more people.  One young man that I love dearly, Zebb, is getting very little for Christmas.  If we got him a ball he probably wouldn’t use it because his mother won’t let him play at the nearby park—way too dangerous.  He spends his vacation from school playing video games inside his apartment.  He has very few friends inside the apartment building, but does spend a small amount of time with them.  Geez—count your many blessings, people.
            After we finished our responsibilities Sunday, Lynn wanted to take me to a neighborhood that was supposed to have the very best display of Christmas lights in the entire NY area, so off we went.  We only had to travel 20 minutes to get there, but sure knew we had come to the right spot because there were a lot of lights on the homes and lots and lots of people.  We found a place to park on the side streets and joined all the hundreds of others walking around.  We quickly discovered we had found wealthy NY—big homes, relatively newly built, and many homes had thousands and thousands of dollars invested in their Christmas decorations.  It was just, well, over-the-top.  One place was collecting money for Make-A-Wish and had blaring music.  But, we just kept finding block after block of colorful streets that were irresistible to see, so we spent a lot of time walking.  Just understand, the temperature was in the mid-60’s so the warm weather brought the people out.  We have had record breaking heat this past week.  I finally got my wish—got to see Christmas lights—there’s sure not very many in our Jewish neighborhood!
            Monday, Lynn wanted me to make more pulla bread, which I already mentioned, and then we went to visit an Ariel Bankhead—Reid Bankhead is his Uncle.  He doesn’t even know the cousins that he is related to that we know very well.  Ariel (he likes to be called King) and his sweet wife live within our ward boundaries but are on the way-far-away edge.  He is completely inactive, she’s not a member, but they were both delightful people and they loved having company.  They declined our offer to say a “closing” prayer at their place. 
            We got home just in time to make it to FHE which was well attended and the Christmas video’s that Astria showed were wonderful.  Everyone in the room told of favorite Christmas traditions and it was especially interesting to hear what those originally from the Philippines had to say.  A great night.
            Then, early this morning, Lynn and I went to Dyker Heights chapel and picked up Gizem and her live-in friend, Yamin.  She is seriously investigating the church.  They are both from Turkey and want nothing to do with Turkey or the Muslim religion.  They both consider themselves Christian.  She plays the cello like an angel.  She has seriously studied for 11 years, majoring in cello performance in college.  It was a most interesting experience to talk to them about a large variety of subjects while we drove to the Plain View chapel about an hour away. 
            We got there and first mingled with all the missionaries and drank hot chocolate.  Then, went to the large chapel and were entertained by missionaries from each zone.  President Calderwood reviewed the mission from the last year, talked about new goals and introduced the 2014 Mission Statement for our mission.  We had a catered lunch, thank heavens the
Senior couples did not have to do the lunch or clean-up like last year.  Then, back to the chapel for just a “concert” of selected performers which included Gizem playing “Oh Come, Oh Come, Emanuel” on her cello.  Incredible.  I am so impressed with the amount of excellent talent in the mission.  Finally, at 4:30 we left to go home and instead of an easy drive home, it was heavy traffic, but Lynn dropped me off first and then took the other two back. 
            I am so grateful for our Savior Jesus Christ and his great gifts of the Atonement, repentance, eternal life, enabling power and agency and most especially, love.  In return for His love, I do love Him.  So grateful to be here on a mission at this Christmas time, despite missing the family.  We will talk to you tomorrow!

Love to you all---Mom/Kathy
           
           

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